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Friendship, Love, Men, Relationships, Self-help, Sex, Women, Women In Real Life

Do you have the ability to love truly and deeply?…

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???????????????????????????????Can you love? I am talking romantic love here, the love between a man and woman.There are different kinds and levels of love.. friendship, parental-child, love of God… 

But do you know what real love is… the love that can only be experienced between a man and a woman in a romantic bond and enduring love because of the nature of their beings and their respective bodies?
A man gives and a woman receives…

Love is deep affection and caring for another. Love is to care and nurture for the well-being of another. Love is kindness, consideration, respect, trust, compassion, forgiveness, sharing, understanding, tolerance, commitment, awareness of needs and desires.

Love is not sex. Sex is not love. Sex can be and was meant to be an expression of love in the physical body… to bring pleasure and release and in that closeness and release it’s possible that another human being be created. A child created out of love is a blessing from God.

Sex ‘can’ be an expression of love, but sex in itself, is not love.

If you think sex is love, you are lost. Mistaking sex for love can lead to much unhappiness, frustration, loss, pain and despair.

Love endures… being able to dislike the person you love, be irritated by them, argue with them, see them through their ups and downs, help them and, at times, put their needs before yours, is what love is about… but only if this is done in return… as love is a circle.

Love makes you vulnerable and many are too weak to allow themselves to be vulnerable.

When you are emotionally intimate, you share your wounds, your pain, your vulnerabilities and if that love is shared with an equal, one who has the ability to truly love, they will protect you in this regard. But an insecure, weak, immature, manipulative predator will use your vulnerability against you to their advantage and gain.. and this is not love, and should be seen for what it is and gotten away from as quickly as possible.

It’s my opinion, that until a man has a child, he may not even have a real knowing of what love is. Because until then, many men mistake sex for love, and behave accordingly and when the rush of the sex excitement diminishes, or wears off, they think that ‘love’ is gone… when it was never there in the first place.

Then the children born from a love, or children in the home, should not be put before the love between the man and woman. Children learn how to love by observing their parent’s love relationship. The bond is clearly between the two adults with the children being just outside that circle to observe and learn with the reflection of the love bestowed and showered onto the children. This observance is what makes a child feel really loved,secure within and with the knowledge of how to express love, give love and live with another. The parental example and modeling imprints a child for their whole life.

Love really begins to grow when sex takes its proper place and perspective in the relationship…

Love is commitment, honor, respect, trust, enduring, pain, happiness, joy, friendship,

perseverance, growth, communication…And it is not for the immature or insecure because they can’t handle it, nor do they deserve it. Immaturity and insecurity wreck havoc in the love relationship. Love and relationship are for the mature and secure… those with the capacity to become aware, grow, learn, accept and reflect.Love endures. Love is making a life together where both are satisfied and honored with the room to express themselves, together and individually.

A man protects. A woman nurtures.. A man creates a safe place for a woman and she blossoms. Together with their strengths and weaknesses, they thrive in joint effort and creation.

Jesus treated His mother and all women with the deepest respect. We honor all women by showing them the same love and respect that Jesus showed to women.

Women have been abused and put down by men–sometimes very crudely and cruelly. But Jesus is the perfect man, the man God wants every man to emulate. This is the kind of man God wants every woman to know in her life.

The highest reach of what love is on earth ….the merging of the male/female… 

Do you agree or believe differently?
Do you have the ability to love truly and deeply? I know I do.

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Inspirational/Spiritual

Why are we on earth?

brickorange3Ever thought about it? Why are we born into human bodies and living on this planet called Earth?

I believe it’s to feel, emote, experience and to expand the knowledge of our individual soul imprinted by God by being alive and having a human experience as a sentient being.

We are souls encased in human flesh and when our soul leaves our body, on earth we can experience no more. A dead body, the flesh has no energy with out the soul. When the energy has exited the body can no longer move, feel or sense…

It’s the energy of the soul that makes the flesh come alive.

We are so much more than our human flesh.

Being a soul without a body, can we still view Earth and its happenings?

Thoughts? Opinions?

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‘They’ were ‘threatened’ by the goodness, wisdom, truth…

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Jesus_on_the_cross : Crucifixion of Jesus Christ against the backdrop of dramatic cloudsand power of Jesus Christ because it ‘threatened’ their earthly power to rule, dominate and control the masses. Feeling threatened and to keep their perceived ‘earthly power’, they called good bad and bad good…

So with their ‘earthly power’, ‘they’ crucified good because of their fear of their loss of their ‘earthly power’ and the weakness in their souls inability to perceive goodness and truth.

Do you know truth when you hear it? Today, Leviathan is spinning ever faster and more intensely to throw more people off. He is spreading a fog of confusion over everything…

Jesus is in me. It doesn’t matter what church I attend or not, how much money I have or not, if I am pretty, thin, fat, intelligent, stylish, famous, or not… what matters is that which is in my heart guided by my soul.

When Jesus is in your heart, you know it and no one can take this gift of the Lord away, unless you allow it.  And in this ‘knowing’ of Christ, you will honor and try to keep his commandments.

Jesus was crucified and died for the sins of the world. So that we may have forgiveness and everlasting life.

Jesus said, while being crucified. “God, forgive them for they know not what they do.”

It’s a ‘knowing’ in your heart. Our mind is to evaluate and discern what we are feeling in our heart that will manifest into our body, off our tongue and out into the world for us to learn more of God’s truth, in order, that we ‘know’ in our connection of body, mind and spirit the truth of who we are, to connect the material with the spiritual as they are one.

Be aware to not mistake bad for good and good for bad…as the way of this material earthly world is set up to lead, taunt, tempt, tantalize and capture…

We will be on this earth for but a short time. Christ died to give us the opportunity for everlasting life that we may exist forever in our knowing. Those who believe in Christ will live forever.

We are on this earth, but not of it…

Once the energy of the spirit/soul leaves the body… we are off this material plane called earth.

It’s my opinion that those who don’t know and believe in Christ, truly never live. They are walking zombies addicted, tied, captured by, and to, the draw of earthly material things unable to see past them and if they do get a glimpse of truth, many turn away, marginalize, or negate it, much like those who crucified Jesus Christ. They are crucifying themselves into not knowing the peaceful bliss of God in their soul.
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Jesus died for us and he arose again for us to ‘know’… 

Stand clear, steadfast and strong in your ‘knowing…

Protect your soul…

Politics

We are no longer ‘a nation of laws’…

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We are a “nation of agendas!”
Politicians now casually abuse their power by shamelessly using police to
terrorize detractors and others who don’t support them politically. The “law,”
particularly the Constitution, is thus virtually irrelevant in some
jurisdictions!

Modern politicians don’t believe there is, nor should there be, any limit
on their arbitrary power to impose personal agendas on a hapless population,a population made of miserable, powerless citizens, who have no rights,and who need to think of themselves as existing only to serve the “Party Elite.”

For those few of us remaining who don’t drink that Koolaid, here is some  sage advice:

1) Owning guns, in any jurisdiction, now needs to be looked upon as having a terrible, personal secret. Gunowners are thus well advised not to talk about, nor photograph, guns they may own, particularly on Facebook and othersocial media. Knowledge of your guns must be strictly on a “need-to-know” bases. All family members need to adhere. Remember this adage:

“Security discussed is security compromised!”

2) Guns that don’t need to be in a high state of readiness need to be
continuously locked in gunsafe(s). Gunsafe(s) need to be hidden, never in
plain sight. Contents of your gunsafe(s) should never be discussed. Lists
need to be kept locked under a password. Don’t show anyone the contents of your safe, and don’t open it in front of anyone unless they have a valid
search warrant, and your lawyer is personally present.

3) When asked by officials about guns you may own or have access to, decline to answer and demand that your lawyer be personally present before any additional questions are asked.

4) When officials come to your home, for any reason, do not invite them  in. When they have a search warrant, they won’t ask! Conversation, brief as it may be, can take place at the door. When threatened, don’t hesitate todemand to talk with their supervisor and that he personally come to the
scene. When that indicate that you are a suspect in a crime, immediately stop all conversation and demand that your lawyer be personally present before any further questions are asked.

Don’t go anywhere with police unless you’re under arrest! When they ask you to come with them, ask them if you are under arrest. When they indicate you are not, decline to go. When in a public place, ask police if you’re“free to go.” When they indicate you are, stop all conversation,
disengage and separate immediately.

5) Most people don’t need a lawyer on continuous retainer, but do get to know a lawyer in your community whom you can call upon when something like the foregoing happens to you.

6) Know how to politely, but firmly, invoke your rights. Never allow yourself to be bullied, deceived, nor intimidated. Your rights are there to protect you. Never casually give them up!

I’m not advocating non-cooperation, just “smart” cooperation! Vicious  anti-gun agendas are at present, secretly and openly, being enforced in many jurisdictions.

Politicians currently in power, in NJ, CO, NY, and many other places, arrogantly believe that the only problem with this Country is that citizens have too much personal freedom. Less freedom is thus their constant goal. So, they want to take our personal treasure, take our guns, take our religious rights, and take our personal dignity. The only kind of citizens they want are poor, miserable, fearful, mindlessly obedient, and wretched. Those are the ones they can control!

EXPLOSIONS, Politics

“We the people are the rightful masters…

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of both Congress and the Courts, not to overthrow the Constitution – but to overthrow the men who would pervert the Constitution.” Abraham Lincoln

“In the first place, it is to be remembered, that the general government is not to be charged with the whole power of making and administering laws. Its jurisdiction is limited to certain enumerated objects, which concern all the members of the republic, but which are not to be attained by the separate provisions of any.” –James Madison, Federalist Paper XIV, 1787

“Hence as a private man has a right to say what wages he will give in his private affairs, so has a Community to determine what they will give and grant of their substance for the Administration of public affairs.” –Samuel Adams, A State of the Rights of the Colonists, 1772

“Above all, we must realize that no arsenal, or no weapon in the arsenals of the world, is so formidable as the will and moral courage of free men and women. It is a weapon our adversaries in today’s world do not have.”

“Democracy is worth dying for, because it’s the most deeply honorable form of government ever devised by man”.

“Freedom is never more than one generation away from extinction. We didn’t pass it to our children in the bloodstream. It must be fought for, protected, and handed on for them to do the same.”

“How do you tell a communist? Well, it’s someone who reads Marx and Lenin. And how do you tell an anti-Communist? It’s someone who understands Marx and Lenin.”

“It has been said that politics is the second oldest profession. I have learned that it bears a striking resemblance to the first.”

“We must reject the idea that every time a law’s broken, society is guilty rather than the lawbreaker. It is time to restore the American precept that each individual is accountable for his actions.”

“We in government should learn to look at our country with the eyes of the entrepreneur, seeing possibilities where others see only problems.”

“The work of volunteer groups throughout our country represents the very heart and soul of America. They have helped make this the most compassionate, generous, and humane society that ever existed on the face of this earth.”

“The government’s view of the economy could be summed up in a few short phrases: If it moves, tax it. If it keeps moving, regulate it. And if it stops moving, subsidize it.”

“The nine most terrifying words in the English language are, ‘I’m from the government and I’m here to help.'” Ronald Reagan

Obama thinks government control and intervention is the answer to everything.
 
Obama ignores the
Constitution and behaves as if he were King…

Obama left our men to die in Benghazi…

Obama lies, spins, blames and lies again. 

Obama cover-ups…

Obama is a traitor to every American and to everything American.

“I have been to 57 states. I think I have one more to go.” Barrack Obama
This puppet man, Obama, running for President didn’t even know how many states are in America.

Actual quote from “Dreams from My Father” [pg. xv]: “When people who don’t know me well, black or white, discover my background (and it is usually a discovery, for I ceased to advertise my mother’s race at the age of twelve or thirteen, when I began to suspect that by doing so I was ingratiating myself to whites), I see the split-second adjustments they have to make, the searching of my eyes for some telltale sign. They no longer know who I am. Privately, they guess at my troubled heart, I suppose – the mixed blood, the divided soul, the ghostly image of the tragic mulatto trapped between two worlds. And if I were to explain that no, the tragedy is not mine, or at least not mine alone, it is yours, sons and daughters of Plymouth Rock and Ellis Island, it is yours, children of Africa, it is the tragedy of both my wife’s six-year-old cousin and his white first grade classmates, so that you need not guess at what troubles me, it’s on the nightly news for all to see, and that if we could acknowledge at least that much then the tragic cycle begins to break down…well, I suspect that I sound incurably naive, wedded to lost hopes, like those Communists who peddle their newspapers on the fringes of various college towns. Or worse, I sound like I’m trying to hide from myself.?”

Obama is clearly a mixed-up man with mixed-up thinking who doesn’t know who he is. He associates with Radicals, Muslims and those who want to ‘change’ America from greatness to not much of anything.

Obama can’t/doesn’t make a budget. He makes speeches and TV appearances, that is when he isn’t vacationing. He is a campaigner, a ‘community organizer’, a dictator. Obama is not an American President. Obama is not an American. He attended American schools on foreign scholarships. 
 
Obama doesn’t have the character, background, education, experience, integrity, or mindset to be where he is. He’s never cut a paycheck, made a business profitable or fought in a war.  He has lived off the government, has been supported or backed by those out to destroy our country for all of his life. How convoluted is it that he is now running our country… running it into the ground?  Obama is not about America’s supremacy and that we lead the world. Obama is about America’s destruction.

What would our founding father’s have to say about Obama? They’d probably shout, Wake up America! This is what we warned you about and this is why we set up checks and balances in our govenmental system.

The Constitution was created to protect America from people like Obama. America is about freedom of choice. America is about ‘WE’ the people!  America is not about governmental rule, dominate and control!  

America we have a fox in the hen house. Obama is a wolf in sheep’s clothing.

Inspirational/Spiritual

Age-old-wisdom from the tuffet…

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???????????????????????????????…and a much needed and worthwhile reminder. Back by popular demand…
Remember these?…

It’s really simple. Stick as close as you can to these…

The Ten Commandments (Exodus 20:2-17 NKJV)
1 I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage. You shall have no other gods before Me.
2 You shall not make for yourself a carved image, or any likeness of anything that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth; you shall not bow down to them nor serve them. For I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children to the third and fourth generations of those who hate Me, but showing mercy to thousands, to those who love Me and keep My Commandments.
3 You shall not take the name of the Lord your God in vain, for the Lord will not hold him guiltless who takes His name in vain.
4 Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy. Six days you shall labor and do all your work, but the seventh day is the Sabbath of the Lord your God. In it you shall do no work: you, nor your son, nor your daughter, nor your male servant, nor your female servant, nor your cattle, nor your stranger who is within your gates. For in six days the Lord made the heavens and the earth, the sea, and all that is in them, and rested the seventh day. Therefore the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and hallowed it.
5 Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long upon the land which the Lord your God is giving you.
6 You shall not murder.
7 You shall not commit adultery.
8 You shall not steal.
9 You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.
10 You shall not covet your neighbor’s house; you shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, nor his male servant, nor his female servant, nor his ox, nor his donkey, nor anything that is your neighbor’s.

And you will have a better life and we will have a better world…

The story of the Bible is on the history channel every Sunday until Easter…

Inspirational/Spiritual, Politics

Obama clearly stands with Muslims…

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BarackIn fact, Obama appears to be in a fast race to have a Muslim infiltration of America and to make America Muslim….

Why is the Obama regime so Anti-Christ? But then ‘occasionally’, Obama will read from, or ‘quote’ the Bible only to use it as a tool to further his agenda of destroying America. Whenever Obama does read from the Bible,  it rings as false as anything could.

Why is Sharia Law being allowed anywhere in America? It is against the American Constitution. Sharia Law is a political ideology disguised as a religion with goals to take over America and the world. They sanction lying, taqiyya, to achieve their goals. They use stealth jihad tactics (everything short of physically going to war) to infiltrate, propagandize, elect Muslims to office, and convert Americans to Islam, in order to establish Sharia law as the law of the land, and make the country an Islamic nation, ruled by a Sharia-compliant caliph.

Christians are life, freedom, forgiveness and love. Muslims are  death to anyone who isn’t a Muslim, maiming, killing, torturing, diminishing women, etc.

Why couldn’t the Obama administration find qualified men who were ‘born in America’ to help make decisions about our country?

Muslims Jihad

MuslimsMuslimsArif Alikhan – Assistant Secretary for Policy Development for the U.S. Department of Homeland Security.

Muslims LookwhosMohammed Elibiary – Homeland Security Advisor

Rashad Hussain – Special Envoy to the (OIC) Organization of the Islamic Conference

Salam al- Marayati – Obama Advisor- founder Muslim Public Affairs Council and its current executive director

Imam Mohammed Magid – Obama’s Sharia Czar – Islamic Society of North America Islamic Society of North America

Eboo Patel – Advisory Council on Faith-Based Neighborhood  Partnerships

How does this sit with you America? How will this affect your lives and that of your children? How will this change the direction of America from in God We Trust to the archaic, Neanderthal, dark ages practice of Allah this and Allah that? Killing for Allah ranting and BS! This is not a peaceful practice… no matter how much they ‘claim’ that it is…

Why is this Muslim infiltration being allowed?

Will America’s women soon be forced to dress like this…? Or they will be raped, stoned or worse…

Sound impossible!? Well, who would have ever thought we would have this intense Muslim infiltration in America and around the world…

What are we going to do about it?

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My most recent fav descriptive word…

Blackwhite27in·ane  – /iˈnān/

Adjective – silly – stupid – not significant


Synonyms – vacuous – empty – senseless – blank – foolish – vacant

The perfect word that describes Obama’s speeches…
the media, many people today, many TV shows, reality shows…on and on…

Do others see how inane many people are today, how inane the content of most media is, etc.?

Do you like the word inane and have you been using it more often?

Use the word inane in a sentence and if aren’t familiar with it and haven’t used it often, you will realize how descriptive it is…

“Most media and entertainment of today have become inane.”