Hugging reveals much about a person…
Some people hug the air and won’t let others get too close… others give a warm hug that lasts a bit. Some people, while hugging feel cold and hard to the touch, it feels like you’re hugging a tree. Some fall into your arms. Some give a good, warm hug that fills you with good feelings. Some is stress and pain will fall limp into your arms. A child will do this… Most children instinctively know that the human touch is necessary for survival.
Some huggers are withholding. Some people won’t or can’t hug. Some hug many and often. Some will hug no one…
The human touch is healing… hugging is a way to feel the warmth, or lack of it and the energy, or lack of it, in, and of another human being…
And if you will allow yourself to truly feel another in a hug… it has the possibility to heal conflict and allow forgiveness. Most people aren’t all bad… although, of course, there are those few who are… and this can be felt in a hug for those who are perceptive…
Some people are ‘afraid’ to hug another… they ‘know’, have an awarenes that who they are can be revealed in this closeness…
There are some people who will/can have ‘sex’, but have trouble just hugging and being emotionally/physically close to another human being…
Some people can hug a stranger and others can’t/won’t hug their own family members…
I will hug those who ask, in need, or who offer…because I think hugging is an emotionally healthy endeavor…
Hugging heals not only the person in need of a hug, but the one giving the hug…
Hugging is a gift to be given often…if someone offers you a hug, they are offering you a gift…the gift of human warmth and kindness.
… not to accept it or to pull away or to be cold in its acceptance is what?…
What kind of a hugger are you… ever thought about it?
Is there anyone you won’t hug? Do you like to hug?
Which type of hugger do you think is the most internally well-adjusted?
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