With a confused look on his face and surprise in his tone, “After women have sex, if the relationship doesn’t work out, they really do get upset, don’t they? They get so emotional about it, even angry.Then with a clueless expression, “Sex is really important to women.”

Thinking, what an imbecile, I respond, “Of course, it is. And sex usually becomes, or should become important on an emotional level to men, as they get older, more emotionally mature, and are able to recognize how deep a connection sex actually is.”

He nods, but his face displays a puzzled expression. 

I continue, “How often do women get upset with you?”

Long pause, “Alot, right after my divorce alot. Now… women, well, women get attached easily don’t they?”

I question, “What do you do to cause this? Do you lead them on?”

He shrugs and with the same clueless expression. “After we have sex, I realize that we have nothing in common.

I inquire. “Why didn’t you, or don’t you get to know the women first, before you have sex with them?”

He shrugs.

Previous to this admission, he told me that he wants to find a real committed relationship and that he is so very tired of dating and wants to settle down even remarry, but for some reason he can’t seem to attain his goal…

What say you and what might you say to him?…