I am so sick and disgusted with people placing blame on anyone and everyone, but where the blame actually belongs….
This actually happened to me. I was in a place of business and there were sturdy appearing glass shelves in the room. I placed a baggie holding a sandwich on one of the shelves and the shelf fell. It startled me, but I picked the shelf up and placed it off to the side of the room. Thank God, it didn’t break. Thank God, it didn’t fall on me.
The owner came in and asked what happened? I responded that the shelf fell. He slammed back, “Did you put anything on it and I stated. “Yes, this.” as I held up a baggie holding half a ham sandwich and some napkins.
To which this man responded. “Then it’s your fault because this shelf has been up for a long time.”
To which I replied. ” Why are these shelves here if they can’t hold something that weighs next to nothing? It is dangerous and deceptive. You should remove it?
His reply.”It was fine until you put something on it.”
He never asked if I was hurt, or apologized for this occurring to me. He had no concern for anything, but placing blame on anyone but himself for having a flauty, deceptive piece of furniture in a public place. And there was no sign that said, “DO NOT PUT ANYTHING ON THESE SHELVES.”
This kind of ‘placing blame logic’ is what is ruining our country. It’s sick. It’s twisted! It’s the Obama logic, as in his continual blaming of Bush, Republicans, conservatives, tea partiers, or anyone else that he ‘thinks’ can help to take the eyes off his bad, inept, corrupt self. Of course, this lowly behavior doesn’t work for long and benefits only the one doing the blaming, but only temporarily.
Blaming is a seemingly quick fix and those who do it are trying to hide their own incompetency, ineptness, ignorance, lack of character, and inablity to learn. Being around ‘blaming’ people make me feel sick down into my soul.
Pass the buck, blame anyone that you can, instead of taking responsiblity yourself is the behavior of a person with no character.
We have created one messed up sense of how to live among some today. What a bunch of whimps we have among some in our society. What a bunch of losers! Where are honor, personal awareness that creates responsiblity, the ‘let’s fix it’, ‘are you hurt?’, or ‘can I help’ people with real spirit that made this country great?
And I am going to say it loud and clear most of the time the blame game is being played by minorities and illegal aliens.
In my neighborhood, an East Indian couple dug up all the shrubs in the beds of their townhouse and left them out on their yard in 100 degree heat and all the plants died. Their yard looked like hell and they did nothing about it. This is against the rules of the HOA. Because homeowners must get permission to change landscaping and have it approved by the board. Therefore, this couple was fined and incurred the expense of replacing what they destroyed. Their response, “The only reason that you are doing this to us is because we are foreigners.” No! the reason is because they broke HOA rules and destroyed the property of the HOA.
It is like because they are minorities, or from another country that they don’t think that they need to play by the rules of common sense, decency and the well-being of others. They ‘think’ that they deserve ‘special’ treatment. And I am sick of hearing it and sick of their lame excuses and blaming.
America is being destroyed by its catering to minorities and letting them get away with dishonoring America and its people by their poor pity me. I blame you.
We have an ‘affirmative action’ President ( and this is the only reason this inept man is President, and he is a media creation with a ‘strange’ past and few accomplishments) and what does he do? Plays the blame game while bad mouthing America.
Where is the sense of responsiblity? Where is accountablity? Where is honor? What changed our country into this ‘blaming’ society?
I say catering to minorities that care about no one, but themselves, and care nothing about America even as they want all that America has to offer is going to destroy our great county.
Also the blame game has been contributed to by many of our leaders and those in the public eye with their lack of character on display. They are ruining our country with their lies and blaming of others.
We need to teach and model for our youth that taking responsiblity is better than momentarily getting away with something.
This blame game must stop!!! Because it is a game with no winners.There are only LOSERS in the blame game because it’s only losers that play this game.
How about take responsiblity when you mess up and correct it easily and gently. Apologize and fix it! How about being a person of character instead of a spineless, whimpy blamer.