There is a healthy appreciation of sensuality and sexuality then there is the opposite and this can take many forms – shaming, being promiscuous while hiding behind the facade of self-righteousness, power or authority, abuse, harassment, assault, threats, even rape and all sorts of other perverted nasty BS!
Openly crude and overtly sexual behavior as in Miley Cyrus and many others is clear in its intent including all the recent revelations of all the sexual harassment allegations ; such as with Harvey Weinstein, etc. This kind of harassment is clearly about the insecurity of those doing so and their need to feel powerful and in control – it actually has little to do with sexuality. In fact, it is the opposite. It’s only about rule, dominate and control, along with a perverted insecure and distorted mind.
When an emotionally healthy and sensual woman or man expresses compliments or admiration, it’s deemed ‘bad’ by those with freakish, perverted, sick minds and negative intentions.
Male and female energy are what keeps this planet rocking and rolling. In fact, the tension in the energy between male and female is what can create life. Nothing else can do this in the natural God-given way – everything else is technology and artificial.
Emotionally and mentally healthy, sensual, feminine, womanly, moral women enjoy being complimented, appreciated and shown admiration in a respectful way and manner – it’s their natural instinct to desire this. Most women can feel almost immediately and in most instances, the intent of the words and behaviors – whether they are of genuine appreciation or ill-intent full of power, insults, threats, abuse and control. A man with his words and behaviors can make a woman feel valued and wonderful or sick, humiliated and dirty. Men who want to make a woman feel dirty are dirty in their mind, body and soul.
Emotionally and mentally healthy men admire women and enjoy complimenting them on and about their attractiveness, womanliness intelligence and beauty. Sick, perverted men get off on sadistic harm, threats and holding power-over.
Today, those with a distorted mind, emotionally stunted and perverted are destroying the natural interaction between a male and female. Some females are overly sensitive and defensive and some men are crude and needy – utilizing exploitation, power-over, along with rule, dominate and control, to fulfill their neediness and perversions. This is the opposite of mental and emotional health in regards to sexuality.
It’s about manners, morals, ability to control themselves, mental and emotional health. We cannot let those with twisted minds control us by their sick perversions..
The answer to this dilemma is for each to learn about self…
A book about awareness…