Many men are tiresome, insecure and soooo needy these days. Actually, I have never met one lately that wasn’t on some level. Maintaining a man’s ego can be like a full time job on many levels and ways…
They need to be reassured sexually, work wise, job wise, achievement wise, weight wise, fitness wise…that they did a good job, that you are satisfied…. on and on and on.
Did they touch you like you like it in bed? Was is ‘good’ for you? That is a question it seems every man asks… and women, of course, sigh ‘yes’… even if it wasn’t and they needed to fake an orgasm to get it over with…
Many men it seems need to have continual affirmation that they are ‘manly’, ‘good’ guys and the best at whatever they do, or try… even when they are anything, but…
A man’s ego.. it’s either in their pocket, or their pants… money, ‘power’, or sex…
Now, this is not always a bad thing… in that, the ‘best’ of men are successful in their choice of profession, adept as lovers… and have a degree of power in the world, or ‘in their’ world… in that, they are in control of the direction their life and it’s not in control of them…
But as I observe men recently, I believe their egos are more fragile than a woman’s…
Was it always this way? I don’t recall that it was so intensely so, until the last couple of years.. maybe always so… but just not so intensely so….
A man’s wife cheats on him or he’s rejected and it cuts them to their core and some men seem never to recover…
While most women emote and can get past it…
Men, it seems are the weaker of the sexes and it seems to only be getting worse…
So many ‘talk’ about sex and it’s such a turn off.. it’s almost like they think that if they ‘talk’ about it that it will happen. Well, guys NO!… Only losers ‘talk’ about sex in this manner…
Sensual and sexy men do not disrespect a woman in this way.
And the dweebs who ask, “Are you a good kisser? Do you like sex? Do you have orgasms?” Hey dummies, this is not something you ask…
You get close enough to kiss and find out… You get close enough and in a committed relationship then find out if she likes sex, etc…
You don’t ask, you invest the time and energy to find out…
And that’s another gripe … how come so many men have so little energy these days? They whine about their diets while they sport large bellies… and expect a woman to be fit and voluptuous…
Instead of getting better… many men seem to be falling down the worm hole to nothingness… Why?… I would like to hear both from men and women…
I can think of few men I admire these days. One I admire is Romney… and some others in the older generations…
If a man shows disrespect to women, is promiscuous, arrogant, etc., I have no admiration… or need for them, even to see them, hear them, or to be around them. And the ones who talk about sex all the time, like some needy penis and make flip remarks… such as, Bill Maher, in my opinion are rodents…
Even that Anthony Weinie is still being considered for anything… shows the state of men and our society today. Most of them are dang Weinies!
That’s my explosion for today!
Hey men! How about getting a clue and becoming ‘real men’!
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