This diminishing of sex as a ‘benefit’ is taking it down to the level of nothing…

Is this, perhaps, why we have so many needy-unfilled, obnoxious men walking around looking for a place to stick it? They ‘think’ it’s some kind of a ‘benefit’ that they get from just being friends with a woman…
 
And is this why we have so many women who behave like sluts and use their bodies as if it is an ash tray, where men ‘put out’ their neediness? Then the women are unfulfilled, alone and unhappy… as well as the men…

Is this why we have so many people that change partners on a whim, can’t commit and don’t know what love is? Because all they ‘need’, or ‘think’ that they need and are looking for are ‘benefits’…

If you use sex as a ‘benefit’, you lose who you are…you  might even lose your ability to really connect in love, much like a prostitute, playboy, gigolo, or hooker, you eventually become disconnected from yourself. You may ‘think’ that you don’t, but you do…body, mind and spirit are one…

Emotions and an emotional attachment are what sex is about… take them out of the equation… that is if you can, and what do you have? Not much… that is for any thinking, caring, connected to body, mind and spirit person.

I don’t want to be with a man who thinks, or uses any woman’s body as a ‘benefit’. I’d rather not talk to him, have him in my life, or interact with him … as his attitude that women are a ‘sex object’ comes through all he is and all he does. He is detached, a loser, disconnected, a needy penis… and nothing about him is attractive or desirable… Oh, of course,  I have spoken to these types, interacted with then and had them after me … they are a dime a dozen… pathetic, sex-crazed, needy, little dweebs… talking about sex, referring to sex every chance they can get… looking to get their ‘benefit’… they appear like stupid idiots to me.

I bet most are lousy lovers, inept, and creepy… people who are easy to bed usually are… as they are disconnected from their body, mind and spirit. They may not ‘think’ that they are, because they don’t know who they are, or what they are missing. If they are settling for ‘benefits’ and dregs then that’s what they become. If you think you are a benefit, or expect others to be, you have lost yourself.

You are being conned to diminish yourself, if you buy into this kind of BS…