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Weak – insecure – those of low self-esteem and low-value feel and have a need to dominate…

Strong competent, secure, confident men and women are leaders, they are strong and secure in their countenance.  Their word is their honor. They protect, provide and produce. ( I am focusing on males in this article. Are there women who fit this? Yes, of course.)
Only weak men feel and have the need to ‘dominate’. As in relationship, it is give and take; one leads at times and the other follows, as each have different talents, strengths and knowledge. That’s in business and all other of life’s endeavors also. Weak people can ‘dominate’ just by their being weak, Weak people use whatever, they can to ‘dominate’ because they are weak and have little ability to be secure and strong. So they ‘dominate’ anyway that they can, to ‘feel’ in control. Weakness, unhappiness, whining, feigning illness, fears are powerful ways to control others.  Therefore, it’s not only by the ‘appearance’ of strength and control  that can be the way to dominate . But ultimately, it is the weak, no matter how ‘strong’ they may first appear or growl in their roar, that have the need to dominate.  The need to dominate over others is a sign of weakness. Damaged people have the need to dominate.

When a man feels he is of low-value  then he might as well pull you down to match him. He could try to raise his value but that takes more effort and discipline. It’s easier to try and lower your value to match his own so that he  feels more comfortable.  This is what weak men with a need to dominate do. After all, it’s less risky and he gets to exert more of his “value extracting” dominance in the  relationship. Yes, that’s right, “value extracting” dominance. If he’s able to keep a woman small, then there’s a significantly smaller chance that she might leave him.

If he’s able to rip apart self esteem, then she will become more reliant upon him and his approval of her. But when or if she does, then he will rip her apart for doing so. Low value men and low esteemed men are very good at tearing apart someone else’s confidence. They try to dominant any way they can – by insults covert or otherwise,  withholding, lying, hidden agendas, even physical assault.

Low-value men have/feel a need to dominate. People don’t listen to low-value men when they speak, Others sense their feeling of low-value. Low-value men constantly yearn for the attention of many women to bolster their frail overblown ego. They will try to use a high-value woman to bolster their low-self-esteem. They won’t stay for long in a relationship when it becomes real because they know, they will need to man-up. Their low-self-esteem knows that they don’t have that ability and if they stay too long, they will be seen for what and who they really are – low-value. So they exit by putting the woman down or blaming her and go onto another woman to impress temporarily in whichever way he uses to get temporary energy from her. Then he will soon exit or she will see who he really is and dump him. Then off he goes to another.  A low-value man will take all they can from the people around him, especially women, mostly through a false facade and manipulation.  A low-value person is driven by envy. A low-value person feels a high-value partner will make them look bad if he stays too long. Then he will need to deal with himself and his low-value and low self-esteem.
A relationship is only as good as the weaker partner. A high-value relationship thrives on both parties bolstering and nurturing each other’s strengths and weaknesses.
 Secure men don’t have the need to dominate, they treat their woman as an equal. Women are subservient to their husbands but that does not mean weak nor does it mean for the man to ‘dominate’. It means that he leads, protects and provides.  He holds her as high or higher, as he does himself. No smart woman will follow a weak man because he will lead them off a cliff to destruction and hell.
 The female energy wants to feel that she can relax into the arms of the male and be nurtured and protected… that she can relax in safety and by her being able to feel this, she can honor him with love, respect and all the gifts of her femininity. Her radiance will be able to shine. A low-esteemed man feels threatened by a woman’s full radiance and will try to diminish her glow instead of enjoying it and continuing to  flame it. He misses out on an exciting part of her femininity because of his low-value.
As example – the  ‘Shades of Grey’ character,  he was weak, ‘fractured’ so he had the need  to dominate over women physically and sexually and hurt them to feel that he is in ‘control’. Because when he was a small child and had no power or control, he had been abused. His boundaries had been violated which created in him a need to dominate, rule and control others.  When, what he really is, is lost and hurting and afraid to become vulnerable as he had felt like as  a little child. Because he had been so abused, he was too fearful and wounded to allow himself to become vulnerable and to love. He  became physically sadistic to protect his soft inner core,  for his protection and to survive. When he was able to heal, submit and become vulnerable to love is when he became emotionally strong and a real man.  Submitting is at times the strongest place a person can become and be. Surrender and allowing vulnerability is how you can heal and  become able to love. Only the strong are capable of love and vulnerability
People can help one another overcome their fears and weaknesses. But it takes the person themselves to grow past them or not. By not healing , they not only limit themselves but that of  those around them. They damage and destroy self and others.  Fears,  depression, negativity, addictions  etc. control their life and anyone close to them.  They keep repeating the same pattern over again trying to keep them self ‘safe’.
The Fruits of the Holy Spirit sum up nine attributes of the true Christian life.. “Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Gentleness, Faithfulness, and Self Control.” No where does it say dominate others.
Young men, stunted men, fractured – forever little boys are the ones who can’t deal with emotions, so they try to dominate others to ‘feel’ that they are in control and strong – that they are ‘big’ boys. It’s only a facade because  what they really are is weak and insecure,  of low-value and low-self-esteem.
Strong men don’t dominate… they lead, protect and provide.

Progressive = communism, Political Correctness = censorship…

???????????????????????????????Truth is lie. Lie is Truth. You are being told what and how to think. You are being advertised to, brainwashed and bullied continually  by the media, the government, politicians and social media, all for their agenda to control your life, what you think, what you buy and how you live. Our children are being brainwashed in schools instead of being taught how to think for themselves. They are being manipulated for the agenda of rule, dominate and control.
FB is an arm of the Obama regime and the progressive movement with agenda to weaken the US, insert us into the NWO under the rule of the UN.. and first thing they do is to flood our country with immigrants refugees, illegals that have no allegiance to our country and to shut all others up, if and when they protest, call them racists, haters, bigots. It’s all an agenda-filled con of progressive/communism. 
BarackObama betrays Americans…
 FB outsources monitoring to Tunisia. So we are being monitored, banned and ‘punished’ by Muslims for stating our opinions, as they curtail freedom of speech and punish those who do not go along with their agenda. Islam is communism with a so called  ‘god’ that rules, dominates and controls every aspect of lives  Islam is a political ideology not a religion. Communism and Islam are the same.
 FB makes revenue off advertising to Americans who made them the money they have and are worth, just like politicians pandering to Americans, pandering for money, sucking private sector money, living off private sector money while they create and build nothing then tell the private sector what to do as they try to take away more and more of our American freedoms, bastardizing our Constitution, letting Sharia Law seep in, ignoring terrorist growth, trying to tamper with our gun laws, censoring us with politically correct propaganda and it’s time for it to stop!
I am blocked from facebook for 30 days for posting that Sharia Law is not compatible with our Constitution.

Clever technique used by a particularly dangerous Islamic supremacist group, the Muslim Brotherhood. They call it “civilization jihad,” a term that describes how the Brotherhood is aiming at, in their words, “eliminating and destroying Western civilization from within.”

Here are some of the ways the civilization jihadist leaders are stealthily trying to take us down: Islam5

  • Islamists are placing Muslim Brothers into positions as advisors to and, in some cases as employees of, our government – placements that facilitate their insidious influence operations.
  • Islamists seek to prevent our free speech – particularly the kind that might allow us to understand and effectively counteract their secretive assaults on our country and its institutions.
  • Islamists are trying to use the “Common Core” curriculum – our children’s textbooks – to promote Islamic supremacism in our academic institutions.
  • Islamists are working to insinuate Shariah into U.S. courts and establish their own parallel “Islamic tribunals” to subvert our rule of law and Constitution.
  • Islamists are using our immigration system – especially our refugee resettlement program – to engage in what the Islamic supremacists call the hijra, a Muslim colonization of America.
  • Islamists enlist leaders of other faiths through so-called “interfaith dialogue” to obscure and enable what is fundamentally a subversive political, not a legitimate religious, agenda. And,
  • Islamists use what is known as “Shariah-Compliant Finance” to penetrate our capitalist system.
 Our government, media, social media are complicit in this destruction of America as they all are vying for their place in the NWO.
The government works for us. The agenda-filled propaganda media makes money when we watch them with their goal to brainwash the masses to think as they are told to think.  It’s time to turn them off.
The government is trying to control us with and by our own  money.  We, the American people,  pay their salaries and benefits. So how about we turn it around on them and demand that they work for us. All their salaries need to be cut and most all fired. They need to be turned loose in the private sector to do what they are telling others to do. They need to get real jobs and get off the government gravy train. Let them live under the oppressive rules they are trying to create.
We are being led into Communism. The lying conning leaders of evil have just changed the names of things to create confusion and to make it appear more palatable.. like ‘fair’… like they will take care of everyone… like they will take care of the world. .. and this is all con  and lies to keep ‘them’ in control and on the gravy train of wealth and power paid for by the American people.
Perfect example: ‘Climate change’ … the climate always changes. These con artists, lying, manipulating, government thieves and I include the UN, have come up with the idea to tax, create regulations, and authoritative rule over the people for acts of nature. It’s the con of the century. The climate always changes and nothing can control it.
Human beings are being taxed for living, but only those in civilized countries. Those who work to attain,  according to the corrupted government, are  supposed to take care of all others, but only if it’s funded through them to create for them  organizations and bureaucracies in and from which they hide and launder money as they suck off of  donations and resources,  creating wealth and benefits for themselves.  A little bit of good and a whole lot of something else.  They create for themselves wealth, power and authority  for no reason other than for telling us what to do.  This is called Communism. They are calling it progressivism but it’s COMMUNISM and this corruption does not work, never has and never will.
Hillary+Clinton+caricature+webTwo clear examples: 1. The Clintons, they live in wealth attained from the government by telling others how to think and how to vote.  They have done nothing but take from others. They say they have given but what have they given? Bill Clinton served in public office while screwing everything that walked by, while he attained power, influence and wealth doing his backers bidding. then they create foundations to suck more money into their coffers. It’s the crime of communism, lying and conning the people for their gain. 2. The Obama’s are worse. Obama is a puppet who has never done anything but talk. He’s a snake oil salesman of the highest order with agenda to rule the world. The Obama snake is shooting now to be Secretary of the UN.
So put it together, flood the US with immigrants, illegals, refugees, destroy allegiance to America, insert us into the NWO under the rule of the UN.  Then we have the likes of the Obamas, the Clintons, etc. ruling over the world.
We must stop this corruption NOW! We must have a government that adheres to the Constitution, does everything to protect the US, to build strong the US and that means getting out of our private lives, our businesses, our healthcare, etc. Creating a strong military so we will not have to use it. That the world fears the wrath of America, instead of their intimidating us and forcing us out of our benevolence to destroy ourselves for their benefit.  We must force the media to report the truth instead of opinion and agenda. Journalism is ‘supposed’ to be our first line of defense against a corrupted government. At this time, we have no journalism,only bought and paid for whores of progressivism.
Obama-Lies-SCWe must bust this corruption open, boycott those who stand with progressivism/communism, censorship, gun control, etc. And support those who stand with our Constitution and if they lie about this to gain office, they need to be arrested and removed. 
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