To be in a healthy, moving relationship takes a…

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Because to be in a healthy, moving relationship takes a person who is not afraid to look at themselves and to evaluate, refine, shift, compromise, grow and commit. Also, to be in a healthy, moving relationship takes a person who can endure imperfection in self and others. A relationship isn’t perfect, contrary to what Hollywood presents. It’s an alive, moving, changing and breathing entity between two committed people. Two people committed to one another in the process of individual growth, within a relationship, and including the growth in and of the relationship. 

A relationship is love, happiness, intimacy, pain, growth and change and to maintain love through all this takes a secure person. An insecure person can’t weather the storms…they are too much all about themselves, their comfort, their insecurity, lack, and needs. They are threatened by change and growth in their significant other and in themselves, so have difficulty flowing with change. They, more than not, want to control and hamper because change makes them nervous and feel more insecure.

 
And nothing really begins until there is a solid commitment. It’s in commitment that a relationship begins, is, grows and flows… otherwise it’s just playing. And actually it’s all very exciting because it’s the adventure of a lifetime.

It takes honesty, commitment, endurance, humor, intimacy and … what else?
What more is needed for and in a healthy, moving relationship?
 
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8 thoughts on “To be in a healthy, moving relationship takes a…”

  1. Healthy love is finding enough humility to find out that we are lost without the love of the person we cherish most and we often neglect..pride, stupidity, blindness, sometime a little of everything but the result is the same..

  2. Very True Wisdom !! ,
    Healthy, Moving Relationship requires honesty, commitment, endurance, humor, intimacy and … what else?
    TUVM

  3. Ayn, you have a gorgeous smile. It lights up your face and your eyes glow. You are amazing. Just seeing your smile makes me feel better even happy. Thank you for being you.

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