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Women In Real Life

Showering while tipsy…

  ???????????????????????????????after working out, I shower as I think back…New Year’s Eve, it was Vivre Cliquot with Ravioli in garlic butter with walnuts, tomatoes, and black olives…

New Years Day, it was Coors light with a twist of lime and a skinny pizza with the works….

Tonight after working out… it’s Claret with the left over Ravioli, but this time in red sauce.

Working out then having a glass of Claret really don’t mix, because I feel tipsy.

The movie, WHEN A MAN LOVES A WOMAN, flashes in my mind, as I wash my hair, the part where Meg Ryan’s alcoholic character falls through the shower door …  after slapping her precious little daughter for asking her a question after Meg’s character had way too much to drink…

Oh my gosh! Is that me? Drinking three days in a row.  But I only had two glasses of champagne on NYE, one beer on NY Day and one glass of wine today, and  I don’t have a daughter and I don’t slap people… But might I fall through this door?

911!! AA!!… Triple A!!!

Nah!… first I need to condition my hair. Only I did take a photo of myself getting out of the shower… am I blottoed..?

I wonder??? What should I have tomorrow night? A Mojito or Sauvignon Blanc? Tis the season…Cheers!!!

(This was written in fun as I realized how much I had been drinking lately. To me drinking three nights in a row is a lot. I am a light drinker, one or two is my limit and I go weeks even months without having any alcohol. I think it can be enjoyable in moderation. Drink wisely… a bit of it can be good for you. Too much and it can be a disaster for both your internal and external worlds.)

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EXPLOSIONS, Inspirational/Spiritual

Your instincts versus so-called ‘experts’, media and …

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yellow august 7everything else…Do you listen to yourself, your instincts, or do you listen to the media and so-called ‘experts’?

Much I hear these days on the TV, in all media, in all the ridiculous ads, from the healthcare industry and otherwise, the government, and much else -rings false to me.

Those drug ads, prescription and otherwise are the worst… it’s insulting to hear them. Buy this! Buy that! Take this! But if you do it might cause – and the list is long of all the things that might be done for the  one ounce of good offered. Why do people need all these prescription drugs and otherwise? Why do people need all these products? They don’t!  It’s all done to make some big pharma company money.

And all the gadgets they push? Why do we need all that junk? We don’t!

I can barely listen to the talking heads. As soon as an ad comes on, I mute them. They are too insulting and downright stupid. That ridiculous, abrasive Progressive woman… isn’t it time they retired that stupidity?

I haven’t watched a talkshow in years and am better for it.

The main stream media is the stupidest thing I have ever watched. I watched it for five minutes a few days ago and that is all I could take. I am getting where I can’t watch Fox any longer except for Hannity, Tucker and Judge Jeanine.

Years ago, I watched Anderson Cooper and that ugly, foul-mouthed-red-head for two minutes on NYE and thought… who watches this insane trash? It’s not funny. It’s not anything!Then this crass woman holds a severed head of our President and thinks it’s humor.

An occasional expletive is fine and I am certainly no prude, but it’s gotten crass and low-class, banal and perverted. Is that what our society has become? Pushing it over the cliff from what was once a bit off color and fun to extreme crassness and perversion…

My taste level and instincts tell me it is all propaganda and trash…

Do others feel as I do? Or are most of the populous so dumbed- down, addicted, numb, ignorant, vapid, vacated, perverted and easily brainwashed that they can’t see what is being done  – sold and propagandized to them everyday, in every way, and in every minute?

Dating, Love, Sex

Kissing….Eyes wide shut….

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???????????????????????????????Styles of kissing… the way a person kisses reveals much.

Sure, there can be instant chemistry that is magic and unmistakably passionate and sensuous  that sends tingle through your whole body with the inability to stop. Then there can be that awkward, your nose goes where, then my goes…

There are those who keep their eyes open when they kiss… and those who close them. Some are sloppy and messy. Some are precise and neat… and sometimes mixing the two doesn’t work well.. although there are different ways to kiss at different times and in different places… if you know what I mean?!

I read that those who mostly kiss with their eyes closed are more passionate and into their feelings and those who mostly kiss with their eyes open are more into controlling the person they are kissing…

Eyes closed you are inward and  ‘in touch’ with your feelings… eyes open you are directed away from self…

Years, ago, I dated a man who kissed with his eyes open. We would be passionately kissing and I would open my eyes for a sec and there he always would be with eyes staring at me.. it creeped me out.. Sure men are more visual, but…something about his beady eyes staring at me… YUCK!

I asked him why he didn’t close his eyes more often when we were kissing.. his answer. ” I like to watch you.” So, he was more into watching me then what he was feeling… Of course, it ended… as soon, I realized he was not anyone I wanted in my life much less to kiss. Because, it was creepy to glance up and have eyes staring at me in the way that his did.

Sure, eyes open, at times, during kissing, but to have eyes staring.. is strange in my opinion.

Teeth… they must be clean white and straight. I am a teeth freak…mine are clean and well-kept and I expect the same in my kissing partner….

That first kiss can tell you sooo much… It can reveal what kind of a person they are… are they passionate, are they loving, and what kind of a lover they will be…

Kissing is a ‘very intimate’ activity… Hookers, I have heard will not kiss on the mouth.. so that about says it. They will do all sorts of other things with their private parts, but will not kiss on the lips…

What’s your opinion on kissing styles, eyes open or shut, overly wet, or teeth are important or…just??? Pucker up and SMACK!!!!