One of the most insulting statements made to the …

American people… “Pass the Bill to find out what’s in it.”…Nancy Pelosi…

I dare she talk the American people like they are children at a birthday party waiting for the favors to be ‘passed’ out.

The healthcare bill was ‘passed’ and we did find out what’s in it and we don’t like it!

That healthcare bill had been sitting there for quite awhile. George Bush wouldn’t pass it.. And Pelosi was angry at him for not…

Who does Pelosi really work for? What is her agenda and why? Ever wondered?…

But along comes the ‘puppet’ Obama and it is passed…No! it is ‘forced’ through…

Obama, actually, has nothing to do with the healthcare bill. He didn’t write it. It was just sitting there waiting for some moron puppet to force it through. And Obama was that moron puppet. And he has based his whole corrupt, destructive, moron presidency on ‘Obamacare’ and it is not even constitutional…not that Obama ‘cares’. He doesn’t honor, like, or follow our constitution. He studied it, ‘so we are told’… but it’s clear, only so that he could shred and destroy it, not to uphold it.

Who exactly did write the healthcare bill… does anyone even know? And when was it actually written? Under Hillary Clinton, perhaps?… And why is Pelosi so vested in it? Why is there such a love affair between Pelosi and Obama? Is is because he does her bidding? Also, why wasn’t Obama proberly vetted and why the media blackout on him?

Most all of the American people do not like the Healthcare bill…

It is destructive to our country, to the welfare of our people, to the health of our people, to the health of our economy and it freaking just doesn’t work and won’t work. It is corrupt…just as corrupt as Obama’s whole regime is…

It is a mandate that forces people to buy what the government tells us to … as if we are in some communist county…

All it does is transfer power and control to the government over your life and death. It is a government power grab. It has little to nothing to do with your health….

I know doctors who are retiring because of it. I know no one in the medical profession who approves of it, or likes it. So, who exactly is this Obamacare for?

We need to have healthcare reform, but not what this Obamacare is..

Besides… Healthcare is not a government matter. It is a private matter… it is between an individual and their doctor, not an individual and the government.

The less the government is in our lives, the better our lives will be….

The government usually bloats, expands, corrupts and destroys everything it touches… We certainly don’t need them messing with our healthcare…

Does anyone think Obama…

…is the worse thing that ever happened to America?

Does anyone think Obama has done ‘anything’ to help America, or Americans?

Does anyone think that Obama is under cutting and sabotaging America at each and every opportunity?

Does anyone think Obama is a racist?

Does anyone think Obama is a Muslim?

Does anyone think Obama cares about Islam and is anti-Christianity?

Does anyone think Obama is ineligible to be President?

Does anyone think Obama wants to divide America to cause chaos in order to implement his agenda?

Does anyone think Obama is a radical with a socialistic agenda to ‘change’ America from freedom to enslavement to the government?

Does anyone think Obama wants gas prices to rise … as in CAP AND TRADE…?

Does anyone think Obama continually lies?

Does anyone think that Obama continually blames and deflects?

Does anyone think Obama ‘acts’ like a dictator?

Does anyone think Obama wasn’t born where he claims?

Does anyone think Obama got a scholarship as a foreign student?

Does anyone think that Obama is backed by the Saudis?

Does anyone think Obama is a puppet of Soros and that ilk?

Does anyone think Obama is purposefully passing bills, creating regulations, etc. to weaken America?

Does anyone think the Obama regime controls most all the media?

Does anyone think Obama rewards his friends and punishes his ememies?

Does anyone think that Obama wants to rip up our Constitution?

Does anyone think Obama hates America?

Does anyone think Obama needs to be impeached?

Obama with Russian President Dimitry Medvedev. Obama leans in to tell him, “After ‘my’ election, I have more flexibility.”
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Does anyone think all Obama wants to do is to get re-elected? And that he will say anything to get re-elected, so that, in those next four years, he can put forth ‘his agenda’ and really destroy America…

Just because a man is big and ‘appears’ strong…

…doesn’t mean he isn’t weak…(Okay, right off the bat, I am saying that I ‘know and understand’ that ‘all’ men aren’t this way.) So, I will continue…

Just because a man is bigger than a woman, doesn’t mean that the woman isn’t stronger

It appears by what I am observing and what I have been told, that many men these days are almost completely ego-driven… and that they have ‘very’ fragile egos…

That they are whiny, complaining, weak, mean, cruel and abusive and all of these behaviors stem from the same origin… a fragile ego.

Is it the economy, the stress and uncertainty that is bringing this more to the surface?

Emotional strength is what makes a person ‘really’ strong… not a strong exterior, or facade. Well, of course, it’s best when the exterior matches the interior… and I guess, that’s what is so disturbing to interact with a big, strong man to realize that he is a baby inside. Myself and many others are seeing many men with strong exteriors, but with interiors that are mush.

Certainly men should(I actually don’t like that word ‘should’) be and are better off, if aware and in touch with their emotions and feelings as that is what makes them ‘hopefully’ able to process them and to ‘really’ be strong. But what ‘seems’ to be happening is that, ‘instead’ of processing emotions… Many are staying stuck in them…

Most all of us know when a man is hurt by a woman that it takes him longer than a woman who is hurt by a man to get over it.

That is, perhaps, because, many men ‘try to deny’ that they are hurting, or that they even feel and have emotions… which causes those emotions to become stronger in them, and then they either ‘explode’, stay, or get even more stuck… hence, so many men being abusive or whiny. Cruelty, abuse, whiny, negating all come from the same place and that place is a ‘fragile ego’ and an inability to process emotions… it’s just comes in different expressions or ‘explosions’…

When a man tells me that he is looking for a ‘strong’ woman … I suspect, or actually ‘know’  that he is an emotionally weak man (looking for a woman to ‘take care’ of him on some level.) As the natural instinct of a ‘real man’ is to take care of a woman.

Women may be smaller, more soft on the exterior, but most are emotionally strong as nails these days… and not just ‘these days’, but they always have been…

I workout all the time and have all my life, lift weights and am in great shape, but I will never be physically stronger than most men… but emotionally, I bet I am stronger than most all.

Women need a soft place to fall… they don’t want to be with a man/child, a whiny wimp, or an ego boasting creep who is ‘trying’ to hide his fears, and who he ‘really is’, behind bragging, a shiny car, his muscles, his job, abuse, his anger, or his ‘over interest’ in some sport, or sports team. It appears too many men are escaping and trying to hide from themselves in these things, etc… also to mention addictions, such as sex, alcohol and drugs…

Some men are escaping into Internet porn and dating sites… even though they are married, or in relationships. They are ‘hiding’ behind computers enjoying the thrill of creating a facade as they flirt and pursue women, when these men really aren’t available. They create this online BS dialogue that makes them temporarily ‘feel’ desired and attractive escaping into the thrill of the chase. Then when the women being pursued pushes to meet, or to have a ‘real’ connection, the men vanish. I hear this all the time from women. And how stupid is this? I say very! It’s actually pathetic.

There is an excellent movie produced and acted in by Kirk Cameron called FIREPROOF… I recommend that all men wanting to learn how to be a better man and a better partner to see this movie.

The below was sent to me by one of my readers, I hear similar things daily… and I agree wholeheartedly:

“The Bible is very clear that a husband should love their wife and provide for and protect her. Somehow some men have seemed to twist ‘submit’ into crush, dominate and control, while pounding their shavened chest yelling, “I am Man, be nice to me, or I will tell my Mommy”…FYI ‘Mommy boys’ are not sexy, sensual or attractive!

Where are the real men? Where are the old fashion commitments? If a man would go back to being a man who takes the true spiritual leadership role in and of the family, women would probably enjoy being a woman in the true sense. By no means am I putting men down, just tired of games and immature men.”

A man is a son, until he takes a wife, a girl is a daughter for the rest of her life….

Okay men, I understand that women have issues also, but if you are a real man with her, her issues will be diminished. Because many women, I know anKissing : just married couple standing and kissing against a tree in the shade on a sunny dayd hear from, are ‘having to’, if not ‘needing to’, or even being forced into taking the role of men in relationships because men aren’t being men. And women are getting really tired of it.

Most men want a feminine woman… not some mannish version… right? So why men do you expect her to take care of you and to act like a man?

We want a man to be stronger, so that we can be softer than…
We want a man to be bigger, so that we can be smaller than…
Most women want to feel that they are protected…

This is the natural and balanced order of male/female…

So, men it’s up to you…

Globalization…Is anything about this beneficial for America?…

Obama’s agenda is global development. It is the agenda of the NWO. It is not about America, except, to take it down, in order, to be able to insert it into the New World Order…where the governments and leaders, ‘dictators’, of the world have control over all the people and resources on and of the earth. And to them people are a resource for an income stream and nothing more… no matter what they give lip service to… 

Obama and David Cameron, the Prime Minister of England, recently got together in America. Their speeches and message focused on globalization… no matter how they may ‘try’ to ‘package’ it. It’s clearly their agenda…

Obama is not about American supremacy and freedom. He is about ‘apologizing’ for America’s supremacy and taking us down to size. Obama and his wife hate America. Their words and actions show this. That Obama attended a hate America church for years shows this. All of Obama’s radical associations show us this…

The media is promoting this NWO…because either they believe in it, or they are afraid not to. If they criticize Obama, this man who is a blight on America, he comes out immediately and addresses it and ‘changes’ his lingo, or stance to ‘try’ and combat and spin the criticism. Sure, he is spinning and lying as this is all he does and has ever done and it’s getting so obvious that it is becoming ridiculous. Lying to implement his agenda… Agenda 21

Obama also rewards his friends and punishes his enemies… As he is conning the masses to achieve this agenda and the media assists him. The spin just gets thicker and thicker… It’s Leviathan, which is to create so much information, contradictions and confusion that no one can think to discern the truth. The Leviathan spirit throws a thick fog of confusion over everything.

Take the issue of gas and the price of oil… Obama stated clearly and many times, that he wants energy prices to rise in America to ‘force’ us to use less. Remember Cap and Trade?

Obama’s answer was to tax the oil companies to lower prices…and, of course, this does not work.

Obama’s answer to everything, as he shakes his finger at America, is to tax and to spend. While he repeats his lies and cons… saying repeatedly “There are no silver bullets. ” Hey Bozo, had you opened up drilling in America years ago, we would not be in this place… that was the silver bullet!

And the only reason that we have any drilling now is because of Bush…so Obama con, blame Bush for the drilling that is helping us now!

Steven Chu, the US Secretary of Energy, said that he wants gas prices in America to reach European levels… But now, that they have risen, Obama and Chu are changing their verbiage. And this verbiage ‘change’ is ‘only’ to gain re-election. They will say anything, in order, to keep the Obama con in office. So that, they will have four more years to, implement, ‘force’, their agenda down our throats…

Think of what will occur in America and in your life, if gas prices rise to ten dollars a gallon. The price of everything will go up… EVERYTHING! And this is what Obama wants… no matter what he may say ‘to try’ and gain re-election, and his examples and comparisons in his propaganda speeches of late are getting insulting, parochial even inane.

All Obama does is campaign and it is on the taxpayers time and dime. That is all he has ever really done. He passed the bills just sitting in wait and he is the puppet of those such as Soros to push forth ‘their’ agenda. Obama is a campaigner, a ‘community organizer’ and he is ‘trying’ to ‘organize’ America into the NWO and to be under the control of the UN.

Obama, by not allowing drilling, is actually forcing us to be more dependant on foreign oil… ‘his Saudi benefactors’. He can blab on and and lie, but he has made decisions and contracts that hurt America right under our noses, while we are paying his salary and his wife’s continual vacation expenses.

We have not developed energy alternatives that can take the place of oil, and if we ever do … this is a long way off and nothing will ever completely replace oil. We also have nuclear power which I believe Obama has also put on the slow track, if not nixed altogether. Nuclear power is a clean and safe resource for the most part. My father’s company used to assist in building them, in regards, to insulation to make them safe. Then we have coal and Obama is shutting down and bad mouthing coal mining…while ‘his friend Soros’ has bought many of them up. So, Obama is doing everything to assist, or to pay back his contributors and supporters… he is making sure that ‘they’ are in control of the worlds’ energy sources.

Obama’s ‘solar efforts’ have failed and wasted much taxpayer money. Sure, we need to research and to develop alternative energy sources, such as solar and wind, but we need to develop America’s oil reserves right now. Even as ‘green alternatives’ improve and develop, they will never completely replace oil, coal and nuclear.

The NWO Religion is ‘Earth Worship’ … Liberate the Soil – Un-dam the Rivers – Free the People – Unplug the Empire…  it’s about worshipping the earth… while minimizing the people.

Gorbachev stated that it would be ‘global warming’, the ‘EPA’, that would lead to the ‘New World Government’.

When in, actuality,many scientists state that global warming is inconclusive.

But if you say a lie often enough ‘most’ people will believe it. “It’s a web of lies.” (this is what Clinton calls it) to promote their agenda… Agenda 21…

Understand this…’They’, the UN, want to use America as an income stream, a ‘global tax’ to fund what they want to accomplish. ‘They’ want to lower America’s standard of living and raise that of the rest of the world and to do this off the backs of Americans. The rest of the world is threatened by America’s supremacy, while they want to live in America and be like us…they want to take us down… this is the worst agenda of envy, evil and corruption.

Once America is destroyed… there will be no freedom anywhere, only world servitude to governments and dictators…who offer a ‘false’ sense of security… while really offering nothing, but enslavement to the government.

“A government powerful enough to give you everything is powerful enough to take it all away.” Ronald Reagan.

When Margaret Thatcher came to power in 1979, Britain was a dump, “the sick man of Europe” and on the brink of total economic collapse. When she left power in 1990, it was the one of the financial capitals of the world. She is associated with her political philosophy of ‘Thatcherism’, based on low taxation, low public spending, free markets and mass privatization. But she had to endure riots and protests from unions and those in disagreement in order to bring England back from the brink.”There can be no liberty unless there is economic liberty.” Margaret Thatcher

Sex Explosion!!!

 Annredchair02Okay, why this over the top focus on sex?

Because anyone who has sex ‘before’, they get to ‘know’ someone is a fool.

It’s my opinion that, ‘before’ you have sex with someone, you should have spent time with them doing many different activities… Dinners, lunches, movies, sports events are fine… but how about grocery shopping, chores, working out, meeting their friends, family, etc.?

If you don’t want to spend time with someone, how about ‘not’  having sex with them. If you don’t want them to meet your friends and family, or ‘you’ don’t want to meet their friends and family, you might not want to have sex with them. Ever think of that?

Having sex ‘before’ knowing someone and spending time with them is putting the cart before the horse… and it usually ends badly…

And this seems to be what way too many are doing these days…

Sex is not something you do on the first date, or in the first few times of interacting. Sex is not just a handshake and oral sex is sex. Oh, yes it is! It really is, Bill Clinton…

Sex is what you advance to, when you want a relationship, a commitment to go to the next level. Anyone who thinks otherwise is fooling themselves, is a player, a sex-driven fool, or even a sex addict who thinks that interacting, male/female, is about sex, instead of feeling, emotions, caring, love, commitment and responsibility.

How about we get back to solid, conservative standards and values in this area. If we do, there will be fewer unwed mothers and ‘baby daddies’ (Geez! I detest that term) in the world, and less dependance on the government by these irresponsible, misled, sex-driven, immature people. And there will be less disease, disappointment and fewer broken hearts…

And why are children even having sex? It’s stupid. They would be better served thinking about school, hobbies, sports, exercise, and developing their talents and their desires for their future. They have plenty of time to be interested in and to focus on sex…so why begin so young?

Self-control is the hallmark of maturity and success on every level… and an out of control, promiscuous sex life is the sign of a weak-willed, emotionally sick, addictive, immoral person and this spills out into society.

Children mimic adults… so the example that you, we, and the world sets is what will be imprinted upon our youth…

Agree or not?….

Are men and women getting along better or…

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Some men are more aware of their feminine side. And some women are doing the jobs of men, even fighting in wars. This is creating more butch-like women and more girly-like men….

Some men are staying at home and being house husbands…

Fewer women are housewives and mothers… as those roles have been marginalized and diminished as not doing much of anything.

Some women are behaving like men in the sexual arena…
and in the business arena…and this is creating less respect for the act of sex. In that, women are participating in it with little, to less, to no emotional commitment and this is diminishing it down to an animalistic act…which is more male-like…

So, with the sexes becoming more ‘alike’ in some instances, by doing, sharing and changing roles and jobs even attributes, is this better, or worse for the sexes getting along and being compatible with one another?

Are the sexes happier with this as it is today or not?… Are men happier? Are women happier? Are you happier?

Are the sexes ‘better’ off with these changes, and compromises or is there more confusion?

Share what you think and have experienced, then…

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This will give you cold chills…

You know this is true, if you know anyone who lives anywhere in Europe. 

The media is making a grave mistake by keeping us  uninformed. Or is our media doing this on purpose, under orders of the Obama regime and others?

Why do many in our media vilify Christianity, while promoting and not revealing the truth about Islam? There is something sinister and corrupt going on…
Geert Wilders is a Member of the Dutch Parliament.

Here is the speech of Geert Wilders, Chairman, Party for Freedom the Netherlands , at the Four Seasons in New York , introducing an Alliance of Patriots and announcing the Facing Jihad Conference in Jerusalem.

In a generation or two, the US will ask itself: “Who lost Europe ?”

Dear friends,
Thank you very much for inviting me. I come to America with a mission.  All is not well in the old world. There is a tremendous danger looming, and it is very difficult to be optimistic.  We might be in the final stages of the Islamization of Europe. This not only is a clear and present danger to the future of Europe itself, it is a threat to America and the sheer survival of the West.  The United States as the last bastion of Western civilization, facing an Islamic Europe.

First, I will describe the situation on the ground in Europe. Then, I will say a few things about Islam. To close, I will tell you about a meeting in Jerusalem .

The Europe you know is changing. You have probably seen the landmarks. But in all of these cities, sometimes a few blocks away from your tourist destination, there is another world.  It is the world of the parallel society created by Muslim mass-migration.

All throughout Europe a new reality is rising: entire Muslim neighborhoods where very few indigenous people reside, or are even seen.  And if they are, they might regret it.  This goes for the police as well.  It’s the world of head scarves, where women walk around in figureless tents, with baby strollers and a group of children. Their husbands, or slaveholders, if you prefer, walk three steps ahead. With mosques on many street corners. The shops have signs you and I cannot read. You will be hard-pressed to find any economic activity.

These are Muslim ghettos controlled by religious fanatics. These are Muslim neighborhoods, and they are mushrooming in every city across Europe. These are the building-blocks for territorial control of increasingly larger portions of Europe , street by street, neighborhood by neighborhood, city by city.

There are now thousands of mosques throughout Europe. With larger congregations than there are in churches.  And in every European city there are plans to build super-mosques that will dwarf every church in the region. Clearly, the signal is: we rule.

Many European cities are already one-quarter Muslim: just take Amsterdam , Marseille and Malmo in Sweden. In many cities the majority of the under-18 population is Muslim.  Paris is now surrounded by a ring of Muslim neighborhoods. Mohammed is the most popular name among boys in many cities.

In some elementary schools in Amsterdam, the farm can no longer be mentioned, because that would also mean mentioning the pig, and that would be an insult to Muslims.

Many state schools in Belgium and Denmark only serve halal food to all pupils.  In once-tolerant Amsterdam, gays are beaten up almost exclusively by Muslims.  Non-Muslim women routinely hear ‘whore, whore’.  Satellite dishes are not pointed to local TV stations, but to stations in the country of origin.

In France, school teachers are advised to avoid authors deemed offensive to Muslims, including Voltaire and Diderot; the same is increasingly true of Darwin. The history of the Holocaust can no longer be taught because of Muslim sensitivity.

In England sharia courts are now officially part of the British legal system. Many neighborhoods in France are no-go areas for women without head scarves.  Last week a man almost died after being beaten up by Muslims in Brussels, because he was drinking during the Ramadan.

Jews are fleeing France in record numbers, on the run for the worst wave of anti-Semitism since World War II.  French is now commonly spoken on the streets of Tel Aviv and Netanya, Israel. I could go on forever with stories like this. Stories about Islamization.

A total of fifty-four million Muslims now live. San Diego University recently calculated that a staggering 25 percent of the population in Europe will be Muslim just 12 years from now.  Bernhard Lewis has predicted a Muslim majority by the end of this century.

Now these are just numbers. And the numbers would not be threatening if the Muslim-immigrants had a strong desire to assimilate.  But there are few signs of that. The Pew Research Center reported that half of French Muslims see their loyalty to Islam as greater than their loyalty to France.  One-third of French Muslims do not object to suicide attacks. The British Centre for Social Cohesion reported that one-third of British Muslim students are in favor of a worldwide caliphate. Muslims demand what they call ‘respect’.  And this is how we give them respect.  We have Muslim official state holidays.

The Christian-Democratic attorney general is willing to accept sharia in the Netherlands, if there is a Muslim majority.  We have cabinet members with passports from Morocco and Turkey .

Muslim demands are supported by unlawful behavior, ranging from petty crimes and random violence, for example against ambulance workers and bus drivers, to small-scale riots. Paris has seen its uprising in the low-income suburbs, the banlieus.  I call the perpetrators ‘settlers’.  Because that is what they are. They do not come to integrate into our societies; they come to integrate our society into their Dar-al-Islam.  Therefore, they are settlers.

Much of this street violence I mentioned is directed exclusively against non-Muslims, forcing many native people to leave their neighborhoods, their cities, their countries. Moreover, Muslims are now a swing vote not to be ignored.

The second thing you need to know is the importance of Mohammed the prophet.  His behavior is an example to all Muslims and cannot be criticized.  Now, if Mohammed had been a man of peace, let us say like Gandhi and Mother Theresa wrapped in one, there would be no problem.  But Mohammed was a warlord, a mass murderer, a pedophile, and had several marriages – at the same time.  Islamic tradition tells us how he fought in battles, how he had his enemies murdered and even had prisoners of war executed.  Mohammed himself slaughtered the Jewish tribe of Banu Qurayza.  If it is good for Islam, it is good.  If it is bad for Islam, it is bad.

Let no one fool you about Islam being a religion. Sure, it has a god, and a here-after, and 72 virgins.  But in its essence Islam is a political ideology.  It is a system that lays down detailed rules for society and the life of every personIslam wants to dictate every aspect of life.  Islam means ‘submission’. Islam is not compatible with freedom and democracy, because what it strives for is sharia.  If you want to compare Islam to anything, compare it to communism, or national-socialism, these are all totalitarian ideologies.

Now you know why Winston Churchill called Islam ‘the most retrograde force in the world’, and why he compared Mein Kampf to the Quran. The public has wholeheartedly accepted the Palestinian narrative, and sees Israel as the aggressor.  I have lived in this country and visited it dozens of times. I support IsraelFirst, because it is the Jewish homeland after two thousand years of exile up to and including Auschwitz; second because it is a democracy, and third because Israel is our first line of defense.

This tiny country is situated on the fault line of jihad, frustrating Islam’s territorial advance.  Israel is facing the front lines of jihad,Islam4like Kashmir, Kosovo, the Philippines, Southern Thailand, Darfur in Sudan, Lebanon, and Aceh in Indonesia. Israel is simply in the way. The same way West-Berlin was during the Cold War.

The war against Israel is not a war against Israel. It is a war against the West.  It is jihad.  Israel is simply receiving the blows that are meant for all of us.  If there would have been no Israel, Islamic imperialism would have found other venues to release its energy and its desire for conquest. Thanks to Israeli parents who send their children to the army and lay awake at night, parents in Europe and America can sleep well and dream, unaware of the dangers looming.Islam5

Many in Europe argue in favor of abandoning Israel, in order, to address the grievances of our Muslim minorities. But if Israel were, God forbid, to go down, it would not bring any solace to the West. It would not mean our Muslim minorities would all of a sudden change their behavior, and accept our values. 

On the contrary, the end of Israel would give enormous encouragement to the forces of Islam. They would, and rightly so, see the demise of Israel as proof that the West is weak, and doomed.

The end of Israel would not mean the end of our problems with Islam, but only the beginning.  It would mean the start of the final battle for world domination.

If they can get Israel , they can get everything.  So-called journalists volunteer to label any and all critics of Islamization as a ‘right-wing extremists’ or ‘racists’.

In my country, the Netherlands , 60 percent of the population now sees the mass immigration of Muslims as the number one policy mistake since World War II.  And another 60 percent sees Islam as the biggest threat. Yet there is a greater danger than terrorist attacks, the scenario of America as the last man standing. The lights may go out in Europe faster than you can imagine.  An Islamic Europe means a Europe without freedom and democracy, an economic wasteland, an intellectual nightmare, and a loss of military might for America – as its allies will turn into enemies, enemies with atomic bombs.  With an Islamic Europe, it would be up to America alone to preserve the heritage of Rome, Athens and Jerusalem …

Dear friends, liberty is the most precious of gifts.  My generation never had to fight for this freedom, it was offered to us on a silver platter, by people who fought for it with their lives.  All throughout Europe, American cemeteries remind us of the young boys who never made it home, and whose memory we cherish.  My generation does not own this freedom; we are merely its custodians.  We can only hand over this hard won liberty to Europe ‘s children in the same state in which it was offered to us.  We cannot strike a deal with mullahs and imams.  Future generations would never forgive us.  We cannot squander our liberties.  We simply do not have the right to do so.

We have to take the necessary action now to stop this Islamic stupidity from destroying the free world that we know.

http://www.snopes.com/politics/soapbox/wilders.asp (but realize Snopes is not ‘always’ a reliable resource as it is backed by Soros, one of Obama’s puppetmasters.)

Obama returned the ‘bust of Winston Churchill’, a gift from the British to America, back to them. Obama wrote in his book that should the winds shift that he will stand will Muslims. Everything Obama does is to protect Muslims.

Could it be any clearer who and what the Obama regime is and what their agenda is for America?…

Okay Men! This is for you…

Pearlsheadshot1What do you mean when you refer to a woman as ‘high maintenance’? Is it emotionally, intellectually, financially, sexually, or what…?

And when you refer to a woman in this way, is it, perhaps, because you have a concern, even a fear that you won’t be able to satisfy her on some level?

Do you call her that and put her in that ‘classification’ so that she will feel that something is ‘wrong’ with her for wanting and asking… and this gives you the upper hand. Much like the divorced man who goes on and on about how this ex-wife spent so much money… letting the new woman know that she ‘shouldn’t’ be this way…should even be okay with him not spending money on her…therefore, he is setting up a way to control her for his purposes…

Is this ‘high maintenance’ category being used and slung about to ‘try’ and control women’s expectations, demands and desires… by the men who don’t think that they can and who can’t measure up?

Is it, perhaps, more about the man then the woman?

Men, I know, whom I ‘classify’ as ‘real’ men… want their lady to dress well, be pampered and to be taken care of…
even to be spoiled on some level…and they take great pleasure and pride to be able to do this for her…

Then I know and have met men who appear insecure, angry and who are easily intimidated by women, refer to a woman as being ‘high maintenance’ with such a negative tone in their voice and attitude. When I have heard them say this… it ‘appears’ to me like, perhaps, they feel that they can’t measure up on some level to attain her affections, to keep her, or to satisfy her…

Sure, ‘high maintenance’ is a relative term, in that, what is high maintenance to one, may not be to another.

One man may have his woman living in a mansion who won’t be satisfied, until she has a ski cabin in Aspen. While, another man might consider a woman who wants to be taken out to dinner once a week high maintenance…

So, what does ‘high maintenance’ mean to you and is it necessarily a negative in your opinion?

Instincts vs. Addictions…

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What makes some people tune into their instincts and others not?

I use to watch people drinking as a young adult…kids in college and others. I would barely sip a beer as I would observe their behavior as it became distorted and erratic. Nothing about it appealed to me.

I always enjoyed and preferred being in my feelings, my emotions, able to see clearly and being sharp in my mind.

But as a young adult, one evening at a nightclub, I drank three strawberry daiquiris. I felt the buzz and was having fun on one, so more must be better, right? The next morning, I was sick as a dog and was wiped out most all that day. I listened to my body and protected my instincts and never did that again…

As an adult, a glass of wine is great with dinner and occasionally drinking a bit too much is fun, but only on occasion… done too much and it loses its appeal as it makes a person sluggish, foggy in their mind and craving more…

Drugs, I never touched them. Well, I did smoke marihuana once in my mid-twenties. Why? A friend had brought it from Mexico and we were having a dinner party and well… But, I hated the smell of it and the way that it made me feel… I listened to my body and protected my instincts…

I have always been tuned into what is ‘right for my body’. What to eat that is good for me and what is not.  I detest fast food, but some crave that greasy, chemical taste.  About 20 years ago, I was driving on a trip and was starving. So, I got a burger at a fast food place. It tasted good, while I was eating it. I am sure only because I was so hungry, but later my stomach felt sick. I listened to my body and protected my instincts and never had fast food again.

I don’t take prescription drugs, unless absolutely necessary. I think the less chemicals you put into your body, the better. Sure sometimes, you need something, such as an antibiotic… But since, it is pure, my body corrects quickly.

Years ago, I had a surgery and was prescribed medicines. I did as the doctor prescribed. A friend was visiting the day after the surgery. She said, “Ann, your face is so red. It looks like you have spent days in the sun.” I looked at myself and knew something was off. I researched everything I was taking. I figured out what was causing the reaction and read why it was prescribed and to continue taking it didn’t make sense. I called a pharmacist friend who ‘confirmed’ that I should not be taking that drug, and certainly not that often and he questioned why the doctor would prescribe it as he did. I stopped taking it. I didn’t need to ‘ask’ the doctor because I knew instinctively and figured it out on my own. When I went in for my post op check up, I ‘told’ the doctor that I stopped that drug entirely and he said that’s fine. I only prescribed it as a precaution. Soo.. ummm…Another visit, I was in the waiting room and a ‘drug sales-person’ walked in and had that ‘particular drug’ advertised on everything that she carried.

Concerning your health, you need to be your own advocate and in order to do this, you need to be aware, tuned-in and alert to your instincts. But if you are addicted to anything and focused on escaping this will be more difficult if not impossible to do. A doctor is just a person, a technician of the body… nothing more… and certainly not a ‘god’… that you do as they deem without questioning… although, many want you to think of them in that way.

Over use of prescription drugs can be just a bad as recreational drugs. We see continually ‘some drug’ that was once considered ‘beneficial’ is shown to cause all sorts of negative issues in the body…

Many people don’t listen to their body and give their power over to others. They may keep doing what is ‘actually’ making them sicker, until they dull their minds, bodies, instincts, emotions, feelings and everything else…

We need to listen, honor and use our instincts to ‘know’ what it good for us, or not, and if our instincts have been dulled by years of alcohol, drug, or chemical addiction, sex addiction, fast food, non-thinking choices, giving our personal, instinctual power-over to others, we are less likely to ‘know’ what is right for us and what isn’t. As we have lost our innate, God-given body awareness through the use of chemicals and addictions…and this makes us more easily led…

We see all the time, over-weight, bloated people mindlessly stuffing their grocery carts with foods full of chemicals…Beer-bellied guys loading up on more beer as if in a coma. This is what marketeers want… get people addicted and they will have a strong income stream forever… and that is with foods, medicines, drugs of all kinds, including government control over the masses, etc…

Addictions distort our instincts, feelings and emotions. Addictions to anything…even the addiction to turning our power over to doctors, lawyers, the government, teachers, someone we ‘think’ is an ‘expert’, or some kind of an ‘authority’, etc.

The most important instinct for survival is to know what is good for us and what isn’t and when recognized that it isn’t to stop it. And those who want to control us for their benefit, don’t want us to use our instincts and to be in our power… they want us under theirs…

They want you addicted…even as they ‘claim’ that they don’t…

Be your own authority, stay in your right mind, keep your body healthy with the use of few chemicals…avoid being addicted…

Listen to your body and protect your instincts…

Sounds like a plan, huh? What do you think?…

Men need women to be women…the psychology of cheating…

Blackwhite29Women need men to be men…

Clearly there’s a level of psychology ‘driving’ cheating that needs some deep understanding.

As far as the men who can’t stay faithful… There are many reasons. There are the men who never ‘got’ women when they were young, then built up a complex, almost ‘hating’ women for the ‘power’ they have over them because they could never have them. These types of men are emotional and often have an ‘active fantasy life’, and because those early fantasies never came to be, they ‘resent’ women. Then they grow up and become a bit more confident, or attractive, accomplished, or successful with lots of money and they have no problem getting women, but their resentment and youthful insecurity about women is still there. These ‘creative fantasy types’ can’t stay faithful because, deep down, they can’t stand that women still control them and they ‘resent’ that they even have such a strong ‘desire’ for women. They hate what they ‘love’ and ‘desire’.So, they cheat, lie, get with lots of women, and often try to control or manipulate them.
Then there are men who simply love sex with lots of women, can’t get enough, have active libidos. This comes from hormones raging in their bodies, an urge to procreate. They ‘think’ it is their right and they exhibit no control.  And usually these types of men go for women who are easy to get and want ‘uncomplicated’ relationships, too. They don’t want to deal with emotions as they haven’t the emotional intellect to do so.  Males have been given this sense of entitlement that this kind of behavior is due them…
As for the women who cheat… I think some are tired of being used by men and have decided to use them back. They are tired of the ‘entitlement of men’, in this regard, so … are taking that entitlement for themselves. Some women have been damaged, can’t love and commit, so are going for the ‘excitement’ and ‘temporary escape’ like many emotionally damaged men do. This seems the better choice rather than sitting there being the one cheated on. So, these women have flipped the game.

Also, I have noticed that many men these days, maybe, always were, are so needy. Many are looking for a ‘mother’, instead of being a grown man. This kind of a man exhausts and continually leans on a woman and she will soon start looking away from and past him. A woman and certainly an emotionally healthy one, requires emotional fulfillment and a boy/man can’t provide this, as he is too needy himself.

Whiny, baby men are nauseating to be around and whiny, needy men seem to be around more and more these days. Is this the effect of mothers being career women, with children left in need of mothering? Little boys aren’t feeling nurtured as children, so they grow up looking for it in every woman that they meet.

Women, even though some these days are behaving like men, still have the innate desire that a man be a man.

There are Internet sites that promote cheating and that put down marriage and commitment in their advertising…They promote that it’s only the “whimps” who get married and, or commit.

When it’s actually the opposite… It takes a secure individual to commit and stay committed. It’s the insecure, lost and searching who go from one conquest to another and who can’t commit to anyone including themselves. They are so lost and insecure that they ‘think’ there is always someone else who will make them feel better about themselves just around the corner. It is always about ‘them’ and how they ‘feel’ in the moment and not the other person. Therefore, no one is really ‘satisfied’ for long.

It’s in a committed relationship, where we really learn who we are in relation to another. We learn to put someone else first and to care about their happiness and welfare, instead of always focusing on ourselves. In any relationship, there is excitement and happiness in the beginning. It’s when ‘reality’ appears that we learn who we are. This helps create and define our character… But when reality sets in and the excitement diminishes, is when the lost, insecure and searching, exit, and are off to find the next excitement that will take them out of themselves… and into fantasy and escape.

For men, women very well may be the ‘magic elixir’ that makes his life worth living, but not if he cheats on her… because any self-respecting woman will shut down and close off her magic. If a woman is emotionally healthy, her sexuality is a deep part of her core… and this is what men are after… if a woman diminishes, or compromises her sexuality … she diminishes the essence of herself to herself.

What is going on in our society that love and commitment are getting such a beating? Why are so many lost, searching and addicted to the pursuit, instead of the reality of love, stability, intimacy, emotional growth and enduring love?

Why are there so many emotional whimps? Even after all the relationship, self-help books, the psychologist, ‘expert’  talk show onslaught …that men must get in touch with their emotional side and that women can take care of and support herself… that no one ‘should’ have any needs and that as a woman to desire to be taken care of and nurtured and as a man to be the provider of these things is not good. That we have gotten further away from love, intimacy, commitment and now are taking it all down to having ‘sex’…which is shallow, lacking, empty and worth nothing, but momentary release…So in essence women are becoming men and men are becoming women and it is worst than it ever was… Gender confusion all around…

Many women are getting tired of ‘being men’. Many men aren’t men any longer…. and men are complaining that they want a feminine woman… because so many women have lost the art of being a real woman….

It’s the nature of a male to be the provider, the protector and the leader.. and it’s the nature of the female to be the emotional, intuitor, the nester, the anchor in the relationship.. A male provides the space for the female to blossom.. this is the recipe for fulfillment… in this, there is balance…

So, what as a society have we done to ourselves? Male/female seems to be more confused than ever, less happy and less content with many left longing …

Because, we have and are creating an unnatural imbalance….

The sexes are different for a reason… if we try to make them the same… what we are getting is dissatisfaction in everyone and this is creating more cheating…the looking and yearning for what is found only in relationship with knowing self and ultimately that with the opposite sex.. 
Men need women to be women and women need men to be men….

What are your thoughts?…