Devaluing Sexuality Equals Immorality...
Sexuality is precious. It is a gift. It is part of the essence of an individual. It is a magnificent connection. But today, by many, it is being taken down to the level of a hand shake, or a blow job. Immorality, regarding sexuality, is promoted almost everywhere.If some woman will spread her legs, some man will stick it in. Not to be gross, but anyone doing this, in this casual manner, is gross. The women who are like this, as well, as the men, are lowly and disgusting and they are diminishing themselves along with society...
You can't separate yourself, your body, mind, heart and spirit, from the sexual act... as you exchange bodily fluids and energy with another. If you think that you can, you are dead inside, or so cut off from yourself that you are a walking needy zombie, or possibly addicted.
Some think that when you exchange sexual energy with another that it makes an imprint on you that you carry in your energy...and this may very well be true.
Playboys, playgirls, those never married, or committed, but who have sex one after another, are nothing, but lost, promiscuous, searching and many are down and out immoral. Most have little to no connection to body, mind, heart, and spirit... They are only looking to 'escape' and to feel some 'momentary' pleasure that takes them out of their loneliness, torment, or lack in self. And if anything feels too real, in that, it's time to commit, be responsible, or in tune with who they really are, being that, they 'grow', they are off to their next prey and escape. Their denial and escape of emotional growth pushes them along their sexually demented path.
If a person does this too often, they may very well lose all capability to love, if they even had it in the first place. They don't love, or respect themselves as reflected in their behavior, so of course, don't have the ability to love, respect and commit to another.
We are rearing a large part of society in this manner today and it is going to destroy our country. The family unit, the commitment, the responsibility are the foundation of a strong, healthy, moral and prosperous society.
Good and responsible men are often propelled to higher level of success as they are compelled to care and provide for their wife and children....
Married or committed people who cheat on their partner are breaking the integrity of the unit and betraying all concerned, even the children, who they 'think' don't know... well, they do know. The cheater is breaking down the morality of all involved. A cheater carries their duplicity with them in all that they do until they admit and recognize their frailty and lack.
Dictators, socialists, communists, marxists, know that to destroy the morality of a society will break it down. Tear down the family unit and people will be more easily led and controlled. Selfish, single, non-attached people usually care little about the needs of others. They just wanna screw and screw themselves and others they do...
Marriage is being promoted and diminished as to be too bothersome to do. Children ar
e born out of wedlock and it is accepted as the norm. "Baby Daddy" is replacing "Father"... and this I find disgusting...How did we sink so low and why?
It's better that a child be brought into this world with a married Mother and Father. This gives the child the basis for strength and security, a unit, an identity to grow and to learn from. Now sure, not all parents are 'great'... but, at least, a child born into a marriage has a foundation, a sense of security and belonging.
These kids with a 'Baby Daddy' and a Mother who have had several children by other 'Baby Daddies'... well, what is this BS? How lost and convoluted will these children become? We can see the effects of this casual, ill-responsible lifestyle in society, daily.
I am having men complain that women are promiscuous and it is turning them off. Then I have women complain that all men are interested in is sex and that men email and text them photos of their penises... Now how insecure, needy and gross can some men get?
Rape can be also telling a woman you love her just to have sex with her... it's not by physical force alone and behind lying, manipulative words can be the same aggression and violence against women.
We are having a major male/female/sexual disconnect... I say be true to yourself, your morality and your body, mind, heart, spirit connection...or you will be lost. Listen to your connection to yourself, not society, others and certainly not the media and entertainment field... they have a stake and benefit in your corruption.
Some people show no respect for the sexual act, or what comes from it ... So how will these children grow up to be secure and responsible to self and others when no one was, or is responsible to, or for them? Most will be worse off than their parents with little direction and few, if any morals... a burden on society... a burden to themselves... lost searching and easily led astray.
The break down of society can be based on the break down of the importance placed on the sexual act...whether it be held in value, or no different than relieving yourself. The respect that women are held in and the respect that women show and give to themselves is a reflection of the quality of a society.
The sex act is an act of creation and an expression of love and caring between two people. It's isn't just an orgasm, getting off, seduction, or notches on a belt.
Sure, it's muscles and nerves being stimulated... but without the intellect, the emotional connection, it is nothing, but mutual masturbation.
You will find that the more exclusive and selective people are regarding sexual partners, the more sensual and sexual they are. Because they know and understand what 'really great sex' is, so they 'value' it...they have and understand the body, mind, heart, spiritual connection... Where a promiscuous person just screws...an ordinary, banal, common and empty act...
An emotionally healthy woman becomes attached to man when she has sex. Her hormones create this attachment. So, she should be VERY CAREFUL whom she has sex with. And men who toy and exploit these emotions with ill-intent are the lowest of the low.
Men who go around sticking their neediness in women are nothing, but NEEDY.
Not a man, but a lost little animal, who can't connect past his penis. He has no respect for himself, or the women. Women who allow themselves to be used in this manner
are ignorant fools who are betraying the very nature of their being. We are creating an immoral society that values little. Sexuality is a person's motor and someone who abuses their self, and others have little, if nothing to offer.
There are 'basic rules' that work to create a healthy society and a responsible, respectful sexuality is its basis...
I am certainly no prude as I have lived long enough to have made mistakes and to know what I share here is the truth of my living wisdom.
I have made the mistake of sex with someone I cared little for and it made me feel sick inside. I have had the deep connection with a man I loved dearly and never felt more fulfilled, or cared for. I have had a 'Hollywood star', playboy type come onto me and and turned him down flat with no regret...
With experience, living, and age comes wisdom... and that wisdom leads us back to the basic truths that love and sex go together... Marriage first - children after marriage...playboys are lost boys and nothing is glamorous about them.
As a society, we can strive to lift ourselves up to morality, love, commitment, respect, sexual exclusivity, or we can let Hollywood, the media, the rock and rappers, 'popular' opinion, etc. tear us down to promiscuity, perversions, anything goes, into a totally demented hell.
Immorality is just that...Immoral...
Posted by Ann at 2/3/2012 12:25 AM 
Categories: Sex
Tags: sexuality baby daddie father immorality promiscuity marriage energy sexual act lost Lonely body mind heart spirit playboys
Categories: Sex
Tags: sexuality baby daddie father immorality promiscuity marriage energy sexual act lost Lonely body mind heart spirit playboys
Bravo! Well done. Immorality is taking us over and will be our undoing.
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to devalue sexuality is to devalue LIFE.
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America is losing all morals because we have gotten too far from Christ... and the truth..
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Agreed. secular liberalism is animalistic, it is about the self, the belly, the wallet... not the Savior.
understand your enemy -- it exposes weaknesses of his and you can use them to beat him.
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We sunk so low so fast because of what you mentioned baby daddies and baby momma's living of the gov. Booty calls, the black race has done much to lower morality in America. I am not too nice to say it. White girls used to be few and far between that got pregnant out of wedlock then came integration and we got the baby daddy situation. This is fact and true. Good article by the way.
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Love your honesty Valerie. I have to agree that this has played a large part in our moral demise.
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Most Blacks are a tribes people. That's why they have kids with no attachment and move on. Many Black men are proud of it and many black women want a lots of baby daddies. They get more money from the gubment that way. These are the some of the people Obama preys on and appeals to. THis is one big cause of the demise of morality in America. White kids being like the blacks. Nothing has been good about integration. Nothing. Our school system is destroyed and morality almost non-existant. The really upper class don't and won't delve into these cess pools but they use all this and these people as they are ignorant. This is an excellent article Ann your whole site is truth. This immorality is going to destroy America. Most of the people have lost all standards.
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Tribal peoples!?..we have had many families BEFORE the sexual revolution..we just couldnt afford it the LEAST..ITS NOT INTEGRATION---it happened because PRAYER WAS TAKEN OUT OF SCHOOL IN 1963..I think Kennedy was bein 'blackmailed' and he let O'Hare and ACLU remove it...we are at 49 years now...you know. the persian could destroy us if we dont repent (2 chronicles 7:14--22)
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A very good read Ann....
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Amen Ann. thanks for posting.
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Glad you like it. Thank you for reading....
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Well said Ann!
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Thank you, Richard.
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That was me saying thank you.. just tired and didn't put name in...
Agree, what we once found aborrent... some now, accept as the norm.
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Again, a well thought out piece Ann. But of course everything that I've read of your's has been. I agree with your premise because it's true in almost all cases as I've learned through my male and female friends and personal experiences in life. Like you I've enjoyed the good and bad relationships. I raised two boys to manhood and feel rewarded by the men they've become. They are not a reflection of who I am...but they do reflect the influences I had on them. That in itself is enough for me to be satisfied with as a father. The husband part I confess I was not as good at twice...but then again I can say that we are still friends and respectful of the love and emotions we shared together. The intense physical connections wane over time and my desires have passed into periods of less intense/frequent concerns with age. I'm far from giving up on them...LOL...but I'm no longer consumed by them. I'd much rather prefer romance than sex... and I hope to get back to that nice place in life before I retire the desire completely. Keep up the good work... it sometimes inspires me to reminiscent and wax philosophically as I'm doing tonight. God bless.
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Thank you, Terry.
Life is interesting and the longer you live, the more that you 'get'... and there are basics that never change.
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Nice words...great understanding and relating with your readers.
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Excellent commentary, Ann. The promiscuous woman values herself even less than does the man she hooks up with.
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We have become Rome in its final days!~
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We my be sailing down the river Styx without a paddle!~
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Kent, I think it's mutual disregard and devaluation...
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Excellent Ann really good! I am old fashioned and this immoral world saddens me and I feel sick inside. The way sex is pushed onto young people is terrible. We are indeed living in some kind of sodam and gomorah.
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Fantastic article Every youngman and woman should read it. Love this site! Love it!
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thank you Ann ! i have been saying this for ages. It's all going to hell when we have babies having sex and people like that lady GAGA it just gets worse and worse Thankyou for your fine words common sense and that you take the time to share.
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Very true great article..
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Very true great article..
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I am also very sexual to and i do enjoy the odd blow job. I do get off on Lingerie to. I have my moods as well. Lets write to one another.. Alan.xx
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Alan, you are the people I am writing about. Can't you read. What rude insulting comments.
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Wow woman; since I have began to read you candid commits; let me say yo are a powerful writer... Very precise and controlled, you get to the point but do not leave the reader in doubt or wonder as to what is happening! Thanks for your posts... I put a couple up on my site at simplytruth.com...
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Yes this is right to the point and covers all the bases... Thanks!
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A classic article Ann. Very Good! I am sharing.
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You did it again my friend....great article!!! You always nail it!!!!!!
Ann,this was a great article. It perfectly stated what is going on in our society today......Perfectly!!! love you!
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Well-written and thoughts are perfect. What a writer!
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Wow ! What a great article. I love it and agree. Men I have been around lately are disgusting. They talk about sex all the time. Then the older fat bald guys who talk sex just plain sickening. Who would want these men to even touch them? Great great article Ann!
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so true. Now there are more kids born to "single" women than to families...
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Exactly and what will those kids grow up to be like? I shudder to imagine...
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When all other loyalties are dismantled, all that is left is the STATE. Textbook communism.
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Exactly and the honoring of the sexual act and women is what sets the level of a society, a family, an organization.
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One of the best articles I have ever read on this topic. Totally exceptional! Thanks Ann.
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Hmmm....
You are right.
I am an ex promiscuous woman. I think you are a little harsh in this article, but in the end, you are correct.
In my case, I had a severe case of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder that caused me to dissociate so much that I was not living in my own body. It did things without me, things in an attempt to feel something, but things which ultimately traumatized me more, as I found myself oddly attached to people I didn't even like--sometimes people that hurt me. And all because of those hormones and attachment chemicals you mention.
It was so strange the day I "got it." It literally happened in an instant. I realized that I wasn't always like that. I had been very prude growing up. Then a series of traumas sent me into sexual la la land. It was like the Twilight Zone. I was so shell shocked that I didn't live in my own body, yet it did things with people....all the time.
Then, I just snapped out of it. That was years ago, and I have only had two partners since then, each one being a long-term relationship. It really does go to show that by reaching out to people, we can help them get back on track...
Which is why I say that this article is a bit harsh, though I know it comes from the right place.
Name calling is likely to just push away the very people who need to hear this advice. They will immediately feel judged and overlook the message.
One day, I was sitting in my bed. I had a string of NSA partners and a few sugar daddies. Yes. Really. Then this message hit me LOUD AND CLEAR:
Everything I do takes me further from what I really want, which is to be in a loving, meaningful relationship with someone whom I value and who values me. Every time I participate in sex with someone I am not in love with, I am walking AWAY from everything I need. NO WONDER I feel like my needs aren't being met!!!
On that very day, I called up everyone and told them that it was over. All of it. Forever.
I never looked back or went back to any of this behavior.
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What is NSA? ... oh okay no strings attached. Got it! People who live this kind of lost life, are usually looking for love and really it's love of life and predators such as 'sugar daddies' prey on this weakness.. as they exploit. They are looking to feel powerful, in to control and desired.. even if they 'pay' for it.
Hookers and prostitutes usually don't even like or enjoy sex.. so that they are able to detach from their body.
Your trauma that caused the PSTD was creating a need to connect and to feel and you thought 'sex' would do it. But sex without an emotional connection is nothing..and does nothing.. it's just escape.. glad you have healed..thank you for sharing..
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This article isn't too harsh. It is brilliant. That's what's wrong with many in this society, you have to treat them with kid gloves as they commit all sorts of atrocities to themselves and others.
Glad you got over your issues Felcity and you state that Ann is correct and she is. This site is exceptional in its content and message. Keep up the good work Ann and keep telling it like it is!
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Ann this article and the way you wrote it is perfect. People who live like this don't want to see what and why they really are so they claim harsh. Shame on you felicity. You know what you were and what you were doing. Good thing for you that you came out of it but moral people are sick of being subjected to this immoral lifestyle no matter what the excuses. Everyone has excuses. You were what you were and you were living like you did.
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Mark, shame on me? I think you have managed to miss the essential point she is making. Just because you are not sexually promiscuous doesn't mean you are grasping what she's actually saying. She is not arguing against promiscuity just for the sake of "morals" which seems to be why you think yourself in a position of moral superiority to shame me. She is actually talking about loving oneself enough not to hurt oneself (or others), which is not about morality, but about love, which would be exercised through self respect and self-valuing. This is not the same as following a moral code without a good idea of what it's really for.
I guess I'll think twice before being honest among judgmental people.
Mark, I'd like to see you grow up with a an abusive psychopath for a father, get gang raped at 14 then called a slut by your family rather than supported, have your baby sister die in your arms, and then end up in a physically abusive relationship within the year, which results in the miscarriage of your child.
Then come out the other end and let's see if you make great decisions in your attempt to cope.
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I understand what this article is about. Love of self and morality many times go hand in hand. When you have love and respect for yourself you will not hurt others or yourself. I agree with David you still need help on your path to healing. You have big chips on your shoulders. Again Ann your article is dead on great.
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This woman felicity is an example of that Ann's whole article is about. Damage our children and we damage society. Immoral behavior begets immorality. She was attacked and treated poorly and she acted it out and even now is attacking Ann for no reason.
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Interesting huh Aaron? Let's wish her well. She is obviously in emotional pain.
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Felicity you shared what you lived like and it was a life of a whore or worse. So can't you call it what it was? It's like if a person was fat, lost weight and someone said that they had been fat. Yeah they had been. You are sensitive but you shared yourlife then you criticize and judge Ann and she had nothing to so with anything about you. You must be a liberal because your whole communications was convoluted. Glad you aren't prostituting yourself any longer but you are still really screwed up. Also, other people have had hard knocks and horrible things happen and not turn to prostitution. That was your decision and yours alone. So stop blaming the world even people you don't know, another trait of liberals and take responsiblity for your actions and your words and your hate and your anger. Nothing on this thread as anything to so with Islam. Islam isn't about morality.
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Agree Jeannie, you tell her like it really is!
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Whoa! shame on you for attacking for your issues and situation. Shame on you big time!
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Damaged people are what do the most damage to society. Killers kill because they were tramatized... so gee, must we not call them killers? This PC BS is what is allowing people to continue immorality and worse. Get over it.. it is what is is... a whore is a whore...
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Ann this article is great, not too harsh at all .It does tell it like it is like you always do and we appreciate it! You write what so many think.
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WOW!
Okay. Did you actually just call me a WHORE?
Lovely. You are soooo moral Ann. So moral. Good job.
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No I wasn't calling 'you' in particular a whore.. I was referring to that PC thinking.. can't really call it like it is.. as to not hurt the feelings of those doing the damage to others and society... this PC BS.. but the behavior that you described what was it exactly? It was what it was no matter how or why...and others have been though trauma and not done what you did.. We are all individual and are on our individual path.. and in that journey, we know what we know when we know it. We have all make mistakes and who we are is driven by our genetics and our environment... everyone accepts imprints differently. Again I am very glad to hear that you came back to yourself...your body, mind and spirit.. that separation from self is what causes harm to others...it is about loving self, and about living a moral life.. they go together.
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My point is only that morality is subjective.
I give up.
Again, if you lived in a Muslim country, you'd understand what I mean, because then you'd be a whore just for showing your hair (which is immoral).
Morality is subjective.
I'm signing off. This is futile.
I do have a lot of healing to do, and it seems that you might as well since you still need to call people "whores." Why label?
One day, I hope you'll understand. Until then, I'll keep hoping you get a dose of your own medicine...and until that happens (if ever) you will have no idea what I'm even talking about.
toodles
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Ann never called you a whore. You owe Ann an apology or are you just a complete whack job bringing up this Muslim crap that doesn't even apply except in your messed up mind.
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Of course, morality can be subjective DUH! We aren't talking about Islam. Ann is writing about American values, good Christian, morals values. You need to give it up. The more you comment the crazier you come across.
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Sick woman! Sad.
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Islam is not about morality. It is about oppression and archaic rules set by a sick, perverted man years ago. It is about hate, killing and maiming in the name of God. This woman's referral to Islam is a desperate attempt to make herself feel okay and right.
Morality is your connection to your body, mind, heart and spirit, your moral adjuster. You know when you have sinned against yourself as clearly this woman did. So may God bless her and keep her on the right path.
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I meant to write allah not God.. HA!
How did we get onto Islam on this blog?
Craziness!
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Felicity if you could call yourself what you were, you might be on the road to faster healing and forgiveness of self. You were the one who did these things, not Ann. You are angry at someone you calls out what you did. That is your issue not anyone but yours. You did act like a whore by your own words also a prostitute. It doesn't matter why, it's what you did and what you were. Your arguments, denial and anger are about you and actually ridiculous bringing in Islam. Islam has nothing to do with this artical. You have far to go.
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This is priceless. This woman admits she was a whore then when Ann mentions the word, she thinks it's about her and goes on the attack. Ann your response to her was kind and perfect and she didn't even acknowledge it. This world is getting so PC and sensitive it's sick. I loved it Ann. Can't call a killer, a whore, anyone what they are because it's not PC and might offend them. This is another reason this world had gotten so immoral. Some are trying to force us to accept deviant, immoral behavior as the norm. They use the word judge. "Don't judge me." Immoral cons is what they are. They can't accept themselves but demand that everyone else does. They have no love of self, or self awareness and it's about them and their actions not others. Very good article Ann and I agree with every word.
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Morality is not subject you stupid woman. You were a whore and are making excuses for being one. Admit who and what you were. Ignorance and denial won't get you anywhere.
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By the way, Ann, you are a whore too.
Now sure if you're aware, but if I judge you by standards other than your own, you're a whore too. Muslims would call you a worthless cockroach of a whore because you are not a virgin.
Oh, what, you think it's a bit harsh when you are called names based on some else's moral code????
There are people on this planet, Ann, who believe that you deserve to have stones thrown at you until you die because you didn't get married, have sex, and stay married to that man forever.
If YOU have the right to pass moral judgment on someone based on your own personal concept of morality, then others have that right too.
So, there you have it.
You should be dead. That's what some would say. Lucky for you, they are not in this forum to judge you directly based on their own belief system, as you just did to me.
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And in that practice of Islam.. there is no place for love and the golden rule. Again, felicity I am happy that you came out of that lifestyle, but from this last attack on me, it shows that you have much anger and healing to do.. Good luck..
I am not a Muslim and am well aware of other belief systems.. thank you.
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What one "calls it" depends on their way of viewing the world.
According to these people (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eA_9UJwCPXA) YOU are a whore. This is how they see you.
Remember that the labels we put on people actually say more about who we are then about who they are.
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Wow lady you are twisted. Ann you are a class act as usual.
Felicity, get the help that you so clearly need.
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David, you are twisted. You are everything that is wrong with this society.
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Felicity, take your own words about what you call others is more about yourself. I am sorry you are so angry.
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That is why I was calling him twisted. I was actually using that word because he threw it at me and I just held up a mirror right back to him.
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Yes, in some cultures a man can have a harem. THis is not what Ann is writing about goofy woman. Ann has many articles on Islam and Sharia law. You think she doesn't know the difference. Get help woman!
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Felicity you are really messed up. Stop taking it out on Ann. She is great and you are so messed up you took what she wrote in your messed up slanted manner. No one else did. You need to look at yourself and keep working on yourself.
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I agree with your aritcle Ann and most the comments then I get to this woman, Felicity. Comparing morality to Islam is plain stupid. Islam is immoral. They promote killing, maiming, and sexual perversion. Felicity you would have been killed as a child were you a Muslim. Some people can't reason or think. Does this woman even know Ann, if she is married or not? Don't think so. Sick just disturbing on all levels for someone to be so out of it.
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I just wanted to edit: I had a string of NSA partners and sugar daddies AT THE SAME TIME on a rotating system.
I quit cold turkey and have NEVER behaved anything like that ever again.
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felicity, so glad that you came into awareness of yourself. I am so happy for you. I write like I write and tell it as I see it. Like you did, people wake up when they wake up.
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Watching Tv.. Californication.. clever and totally immoral.. fun to watch if you are totally grown with your morals in place.. at least, some of it.. because watching too long can turn your stomach.. the lead character is a lost soul. Then there is a commercial for some dating site for affairs and they make fun of marriage.. Next the vile behaviors and dress on the reality shows, such as the Housewives of whereafter, many of them talk and behave like I don't what hookers, trash, slime... and these are 'housewives'? And they most all dress like high-priced hookers and worse....
The examples are so immoral and nasty.. and kids are exposed to this all the time.
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I agree. What is shown is continual and gets more immoral by the minute.
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Excellent article that seems to have stimulated an interesting thread. Ann you are so great and always full of wisdom and a lady.
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Might be the best non-prescription drug one could take. (
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You are a star Ann
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Good Article. I like the way you Think.
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When you talk "immorality", how about illegal mexicans? If this story is not politically-correct, then, I say everybody watch at least three shows of Laverne & Shirley--
http://www.examiner.com/law-enforcement-in-national/one-month-old-infant-raped-and-murdered-by-illegal-alien
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But, understand, "DEVALUING" sexuality = "IMMORALITY". Or, am I missing out on something here. No matter how you slice it, we have illegal mexicans here in the US. Yes, I'm not kidding. Right here in the good ole U of SA. Illegal mexicans. They are here. They're here and they hate anything and everything about our country--including its sexuality. Even Pedro? Even Even their salsa? Yes. Even Pedro and even their salsa!
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We are allowing all sorts of undesirables into America and they have different standards and morals and will do all they can to harm us.
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Ann you have the prettiest face and smile.
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I just see the article being about morality. Yes, sexuality is about sex, but, this article is about morality. Yes, when you combine sexuality and (im)morality--all sorts of things can go wrong. For example--parents. When it comes to sex these day, it appears most parents tell their kids "WELL, IF YOU MUST HAVE SEX, CAN'T YOU HAVE SAFE SEX?" What good does this do?
How about the Bunny Ranch? I wonder how many proud parents have daughters that work at the Bunny Ranch?
http://www.latimes.com/news/politics/topoftheticket/la-na-tt-brothel-bunnies-20120201,0,6007470.story
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Just look at how sex is sold to small children..let alone teen and young adults.Dating used to mean dinner,lunch,hiking.Not lets jump in the sack!Screw everthing in sight.Dating used to be safe..jersey shore,mtv,bad girls need love too.Can you say sluts and whores! How about pagent tots?Disrespect your elders,your bodies and morals are a nasty thing to have these days.
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Morals? Whats that?
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I agree with everything that Ann and most have written. Was trying to emphasise what you said. Should have put lol or something. My theory is our sociatal decay started in the 1960s. Yes there was the good that came out of it civel rights etc. But the sex,drugs I will do what I want attitude is where most of our decay comes from. Its sad. I bet similar things were happening in rome during its last days. I hope I'm clear now.
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Agree, the 'flower children' the drugs, free sex and love love love are Obama followers and are tearing us down.
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i remember when i was a teen my mom saying she didn't like the world any more. it wasn't the one she grew up in. I now understand the statement. People have no manners, morales, courtesy has gone out the window, no one wants to work for anything, it has become a gimme society. education is in the toilet, no one has social skills, children are obeses, technology has brought us a long way. if womething breaks we throw it away and buy new, we used to fix what was broke.
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I may have said this before, but it has always stuck in my head. No one told me this...it just randomly came into my thoughts over 25 years ago. This was even before the word progressive was used in politics. One day a thought came into my mind....it went something like this: Values, morality, integrity etc. on day one of this world should be no different than day 1 million. Pushing unmoral behavior or forcing us to accept what is being called progressive is bull. Certain values do not change. Certain behaviors should not change. We should not be forced to accept things that go against our morals and have the word progressive used. That is not progress to me. That is going down to a cess pool of filth which is slowly being brought into our society which is becoming numb anyway to accept behaviors and thoughts we would have been appalled at years ago. We are taught by our parents, church at young ages what are the greatest values and beliefs. Day One...Day One Million....values and morals should not change and called progress. It is not! In my opinion, it is the numbing of a nation to see, hear, look at evil and it becomes the norm for them. Because that is progress...isn't it? I call it what it is. Evil brain washing.......
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Well said Crissy .. agree.
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Very good Ann...while I'm not perfect and have made mistakes, I agree with you!!
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Ann, Your artical was lovely. Thank you. In the begining of comments a man attacks secular liberals as being immoral. Bringing religion to the conversation is a distraction. Many professed christians act with zero morals using redemption as an excuse. To point at a single thoughtful, philosophical group & blame, blame, blame diminishes the power of the argument. It is offensive to me, & those who honor the secular humanist founders of this nation. Are Jews not moral?
To date the best expression of what we might aspire to as a loving couple, is a book by a Buddhist, Open to Desire, by Mark Epstein MD.
I gave this book to the last 2 men I committed to, ultimately they rejected the book without reading it & me. Their commitment to me was revealed as one sided, to keep that vagina they masturbate themselves with from any other, while they continued to shop around (spread STDs). Both men profess christianity, but have no problem lying & cheating.
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Thank you Dani...
Agree 'religion' or any spiritual practice can be used to hide behind.. it can also serve as a guiding light...
Many men these days are not worth even talking to.. it's really sad.. women need to hold close and value their sexuality. Get away from men who don't value them and have the same morality. Many men have this 'double' standard operating and it doesn't work. A man whore is a man whore... who would want one?
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Liberalism in itself is such a cancer upon our Free Country. It opens the door for Communism, Marxism, Socialism, Deviant Behavior, Anti Christian activities, Abortion activists, and basically anything that removes accountability of ones character>>>>>>>
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Immorality explosion of any sort is usually because the status quo has change to accept it. It means that the government, the media, and social peer pressure has made a complete u-turn for the acceptability of immorality. But it is also (and mainly) the fault of the churches, and the Christians for allowing our standard as Americans to deteriorate.
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Ann, I had a real problem with this for a few years. I'm disgusted about the whole mess. I'm a Christian, but I fell into the trap my desires laid. I hope I never fall into that again.
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Wow this is good!
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It seems to be such a casual thing now,it is disgusting.
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Tempted is one thing, acting on it is another, i have always thought that a woman sharing herself was the greatest gift she could give. should not betaken lightly.
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We've all been tempted and we have all made mistakes. But recognizing it for what it is defines character and morality.
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I love looking at the city pics of Chicago streets of long-ago.In it,all the women are dressed in DRESSES.At a minimum,they are dressed like ladies.The men,all in suits.There is really something to be said about those pics....Self respect.
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Ann, I like your tell it like it is style. I quit going to the movies because of Hollywood's use of deviant behavior as normal behavior. In our schools we want students to have good self esteem, but not take responsibility for bad behavior. All too often, people jump in to bed without learning about each other, jump into marriage (mostly because she is pregnant) and when the sex becomes mundane, they find they have no idea who each other is which typically leads to divorce and children living in a broken home.
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Thank you Al. I have slacked on going to the movies because of this also. I did see an intersting Indie called Dangerous Methods about Freud and Jung.. I knew it in that I have studied much but it showed how messed up these men are and they are the fathers of psychiatry and psychology...
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2 shall be one and all that good stuff . . you don't want casual sex, because you dont want the other person's demons - lol . . .assuming they have demons living in them
well . . a few x-gurlfriends definitely did ! . .but jesus said, if you walk in this world, your feet will get dirty .. then peter said wash me completely lord...jesus said....you are aready clean ..but your feet will still get dirty.
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sex is a door way to the soul . . .I hate when the X's pound on the door "hey I left my favorite bra there" . . .relentless
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Good Artical Ann, all the answers are in the Bible, If America could get back to it's mostly Christian roots I think the low morals of America could and would be solved! God Bless!!
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Ann-thank you for the article. I would take one issue with it, however - I believe we are already "down the tubes." I believe we are under God's judgement. 50 million plus babies killed with government permission, sexual deviancy has become the norm, rather than the exception, widespread corruption and scandal at all levels of government, the decline in education where indoctrination is more important than educatiing kids in the skills they need to function as productive citizens. . . well, you get the point. I'm preaching a sermon on this next time I'm in the pulpit. Probably lots of "thanks, Pastor" afterwards and no action, but I gotta say it anyway.
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Romance never stands a chance, and without romance we lose our soul. Grossness is the new fad. Lowering of the precious to the vulgar is the future; today's "educators" call it "being more sopisticated" when they speak of the youth and their behavior......can innocence be regained? Can the ability to blush be re-learned? Who knows. Pealrs before swine- and swine is what most people make of themselves. I'm sorry to sound so cheerful.......
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Well written piece. Everyone should read this.
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Ann, this is a great article and right on. There is so much immorality in this country it seems like we are going back to Soddom and Gommora. I heard on the radio that, I believe it was Health and Human services, are now defining a couple as not only a man and a woman but trans gender types and whatever you feel you are at the time. Pretty sad times...
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I just saw the problem...don't value anything before God and yourself.......Women tend to do that with men.....STOPPING....
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I must be careful, Ann your beauty may be my weakness..
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Good one. Right on point.
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Happy Valentines Day Ann...
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Commitment and monogamy are in.... Even among the areligious and athiests and agnostics. It is the strength of family and relationship that are so important to society. Strong family values run across all beliefs, and every society or nation in which the state or government has overrode that has become totalitarian and dictatorial, like USSR, China, Cuba, Iran, North Korea, Mongolia, NAZI Germany, Fascist Italy. Same goes for Theocracies, the government endorsing one religion AKA state sponsored religion.
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You are correct in that strong family values create strength but what is going on now in America is breaking up and down of morality as related to the family. Gay marriage is a joke and a fraud and all the kids born out of wedlock is huge.
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Life is what is precious and a very special gift from God. My sexuality is a gift for my husband and no one else! And if that makes me a prude, then so be it!
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good post. it does go both ways now a days and the sad truth is this was part of the USSR goal to bring down the USA
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Thank you. I am glad to know that I am not the only person in the world who believes this. But, I often feel like I am. This issue leads to a lot of lonely people who never find genuine mutual love. Genuine mutual love seems to be a concept that has been relegated to the anals of history. Something another generation has enjoyed, but one that we might never find.
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I know ... it's sad isn't it.. it's become all about sex..
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Honor marriage, and guard the sacredness of sexual intimacy between wife and husband. God draws a firm line against casual and illicit sex. Hebrews 13:4
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Exactly and think of what a better world we would have if more followed this....
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