MAN HATER!
by Ann
Why is it that if a woman doesn't like what a man says or does, and calls him out on it and holds him accountable, that some men will call her a MAN HATER?Or he may say that she is like a man, or that she needs a weak man, that she can boss around, or that she is too strong-willed.
Like these are considered some sort of insults that as soon as a woman is called MAN HATER or designated these things, that she should curl up in a ball and shrivel up. Like WHY?
As the person usually a man, stating that she is too strong-willed, is just upset that they can't manipulate her, in the way and manner, that he wants to. So, I say that's a good thing.
Some men like a malleable, subservient women that they can manipulate and control. And some women make it a game to play these type of men. There is never any real or honest communication in this type of interaction. It's mostly all placating, control and manipulation.
Some men deserve to be stood up to and called out for their abusive, manipulative, controlling, hateful actions, words, deeds, and behaviors. And the woman doing this is not a MAN HATER, but a lover of herself and that is a healthy thing. And controlling, manipluating, predators don't like healthy confident people...they much prefer weak, insecure PREY.
And if or when they can't beat someone down, they resort to what they 'think' are insults or name calling.
The use of name calling to control behaviors and to try and shame others has reached an all time high these days. It is almost laughable, except that those weak in spirit and will, often succumb to this type of obvious behavior modification and allow their behavior to be controlled. It's as if they are being manipulated and name-called right out of their own beliefs, will, confidence, instincts and even existance.
At times, it's just fine to be a MAN HATER! Because some men deserve to be hated, at certain times, because of
their words, actions and deeds. I say call me what you want. I know who I am! And if you call me a MAN HATER, how about look at yourself to see why you think that you are being hated.
That is, if you are a strong enough man to do so...
OR might
it be that persons and men that shout MAN HATER are really projecting their hate onto women because, actually, the truth is that they are WOMAN HATERS? UMMMMM... something to ponder....Subscribe by email or follow by network blog...
Posted by Ann at 8/30/2010 8:00 AM 
Categories: Relationships
Tags: romance projection manipulation women abuse Men sex dating control
Categories: Relationships
Tags: romance projection manipulation women abuse Men sex dating control
Amen Sister!
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Very well put and so true!
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YES! Some men try to get you to do what they want, corner you and when you resist or won't let them they turn on you and call you names and try to put you down. It is really out of their desperation to get what they want from you or that you do what they want you to.
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Those that name call do so to control others. It comes from a weak place in them. Like a last resort at control, when all else fails, you can't get someone under your thumb. Call them a name! It's stupidity!
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Because men can't be criticised. It's always the woman's fault. That's the rule.
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LOL! How true, Joe..
And good guys handle it one way and the not so good ones handle it another..
I like your insights and comments. Keep'em coming..
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Control freaks resort to name calling.
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Love it and so true!
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Men like to be in control and that can't always be and isn't good that they be anyway. Some men go about it stupidly. And weak men like to blame women and degrade them in anyway that they can. If some men call a woman a man hater, how stupid does that sound? real stupid. It's like throwing down the gauntlet. This site is cool.
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Ann,
Great post, I was contemplating blogging on why I currently "hate" men. Thanks for the inspiration.
Muffy
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Thank you, Muffy. But how about love yourself so the Woman Haters can't touch your glorious spirit!
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Muff,
I think what you meant to blog about was the fact you are a Man Eater, not Man Hater!!
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Are man hater and man eater the same things? Anyone know???
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I found this definition of a maneater on a maneater site...
An intoxicatingly beautiful, charasmatic, charming woman who puts a spell on you. Her beauty, wit, and charm make you fall hopelesly in love with her. You would do anything for her. As much as you love her, she doesn't give a shit about you. Though she pretends to feel the same way for you, she see's other men behind your back. When she leaves you, you feel devistated. You're life is forever in shambles leaving you wishing "you never met her at all."
I made the mistake of falling in love with a man eater. Now I am in shambles.
---- so Muffy are you are man eater or a man hater..
I think I fit into both categories.. depending on my mood..
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Kidding.. of course, at least, I think I am kidding.. or....
LOLOLOL
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Hello Ann and how are you today? I see you have a interesting article about man haters or mean eaters. To begin, with I would not want either woman coming my way. If a woman does not know her worth, why is she involved with men that she has to control or maniuplate? Also, for a man he should be secure to deal with a woman who may be bossy? If she grew up with all boys in her family she had to hold her own. That is th ttpe I like to deal with, one who is a little mean streak to her but still a lady. Finally, I would say men love & respect those women that you are with espcially if you marrried her & women repsect & love your man especially if you married him. The End
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Sam, agree... this is a tongue in cheek article full of truths...that when either a man or woman know their worth have no need to call each other names.
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Actually, most all the time, those that call and designate others as a 'name' are insecure and feel threatened. Some of the time, it is humor and the lessor amount is when it is true. And most of the time it is mostly self-projection...
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Hey, pretty face. I have known you for years and you don't have a hateful bone in your body. But, if some body tries to mess with you, WATCH OUT! But that just makes you smart and strong.
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The way some men are, they deserve to be hated.
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You tell is exactly as it is. Good stuff on this site. Very good!
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Men have more fragile egos than most women. And those that do, put women down. They are losers.
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Why I can not print a document?
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Why I can not print a document?
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