Obama committed obvious and clear treason….

Yes.. it was ransom … Obama-Lies-SCHillary and Obama are in it together… covering up for one another as they lie, liHillary+Clinton+caricature+webe, lie, sell America out and commit treasonous acts for their progressive/communist agenda to insert American into the NWO under the rule of the UN.  Hillary will continue the Obama destruction. She will put the nails in America’s coffin as she gains more power and wealth for her family. They are all lying, murdering, anti-America criminals of the highest order.  Obama and Hillary should both be in Prison. They are operating as if America is a dictatorship.

 

       Obama scoffed at the notion that the $400 million dollars in small unmarked foreign bills was a ransom payment. Scolding the American people in front of the cameras, he practically wagged his finger and defiantly stated “We Do Not Pay Ransom.” Hogwash. Obama seems to be the only one who holds that opinion.

One of the Iranian captive, a Christian pastor by the name of Saeed Abedini tells a very different story.

As recounted by Gary Bauer: “Pastor Abedini says on the night of their release the hostages were taken to the airport and told they would soon be free. But hours passed with nothing happening. Abedini asked one of their guards what was causing the delay. The guard told him, ‘we are waiting for another plane,’ and only then are we ‘going to let you go.'”

Empathy and Compassion…

Ennis6We are all individual and each of us have our individual burdens and trials in life. And no one really knows what another is going through. One suffers cancer, one depression, another loss of love, one betrayal, one money issues, another self-esteem issues, then another something else and these things are usually not seen. Much is hidden behind the image that a person creates or that other’s perceive. Some hide behind a smile, others wear a frown with their anger and hurt on their sleeve. And differing human coping mechanisms can be in the same person, but at varying times.  Human beings are complex.
And really and actually, no one knows why humans have their specific to them individual burdens and trials, but God.
Think back to what Robin Williams’ death shows … a suicide of a tortured soul. He had the talent to entertain and to make others laugh and to feel enjoyment, but he was so tortured  internally that he left behind three children, a wife and what appeared like a happy and fulfilling life. We don’t know why and never really will why he took his own life, we can only surmise.  Only he and God know.
But then there are things called empathy and compassion for your fellowman that are in held in the hearts of those who believe and love God. Those without compassion and empathy in their heart can sink into evil able to do horrible things to self and others…such as addictions, lying, manipulating, cheating, maiming, killing, etc..
We are witnessing this with the cult of Islam. They show no compassion or empathy for others, not even to self.  We are witnessing this on all levels everywhere. It’s in the energy of our world today.
We each have our life to live.. and hopefully we are able to have compassion and empathy for others who are living theirs along with having it for ourselves. That is what we do as children of God.
The energy on the planet is intense right now and many can’t take it. Can’t you feel it, see  it, even hear it?  It surrounds us and hangs thick in the air, on the airwaves, etc.  permeating the world.  Therefore,  we have a choice, we can  turn and succumb to evil as evil wants us to do, or rise and lift ourselves out of it turning to God and fill ourselves up with empathy and compassion for self and others. I don’t mean have tolerance for seductive evil, such as libs/ Dems progressives/ communists have and do and  that evil promotes doing…a  bit of good upfront to promote their convoluted agenda with much evil going on, under, around and hidden.
One definition of evil is, to have no compassion towards your fellowman with the ability to act on it. And this may be accomplished in and behind the facade of doing good as that is Satan’s perfect way of expressing and promoting evil… seduction. 
 
Compassion begins with self… sound values and thoughts, morality, virtues, health mentally and physically,  goodness –  but not fake goodness that evil  and insecurity hide in, but genuine goodness  with empathy towards yourself and your humanity. You can’t give to others what you don’t have for yourself.
We are living in the time of anti-Christ. .. anti-goodness, anti-real compassion, anti real empathy… being replaced with fake compassion, empathy and goodness wrapped up in evil for Satan’s agenda, for the  purpose to rule, dominate and control every aspect of lives.  Satan and hell are controlled restriction and oppression. God and heaven are freedom.
It’s going to get rough… then rougher…  
Protect your soul because Satan wants it.
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Why Trump and not Hillary, Muslim infiltration…

CULTURE CRISIS 2016 by William Been August 8th, 2016.

Article 55 MUSLIM BROTHERHOOD MEETS THE LIGHT OF DAY

PATRIOTS AND VOTERS MUST UNDERSTAND…

Under the protective umbrella provided by the Democrat Party, the Muslim Brotherhood and other radical Islamist groups have been allowed to quietly infiltrate and operate openly within America while those responsible for national security have offered no significant resistance. Donald Trump has ripped the mask of silence away as he has stood alone warning the American people of the threats associated with the mass migration of Syrian Muslims into many American cities.

Hillary+Clinton+caricature+webIn addition, when Hillary Clinton and the Democrats shamelessly used the death 12 years ago of a Muslim as a self-serving political attack on Mr. Trump, the secrecy surrounding the Muslim Brotherhood infiltration was finally revealed to millions of Americans. Numerous reports followed the Khzir Kahn statements revealing his links to Sharia Law and the philosophic beliefs of the Muslim Brotherhood. In addition, the family of Hillary Clinton’s confidante and assistant Huma Abedin was once again shown to be a significant part of the highest levels of the Brotherhood.

Islam5The American people now have visibility of the Muslim Brotherhood and their stated intent to rule the world either by infiltration or by force. By taking his stand concerning the threat of Radical Islamist Terrorists, Mr. Trump has given the American people one last chance to save America from the disastrous cultural attacks being experienced throughout Europe. Four more years of Clinton-Obama will be irreversible.

GodAllahMany of us have been greatly concerned about Radical Islamic Terrorism and the destruction of cultures and countries throughout Europe and Africa. However, with both political parties pretending Islam is the religion of peace and the Obama Administration actively advocating for Open Borders and increased migration from Islamic countries, there has been nothing but ridicule for any Americans who have voiced concern.

Many will not believe and will ignore what is presented in the balance of this article. It is a long article but, hopefully, it will be worth your time.

Trump2The election of Donald Trump is not only the most important of our lifetime but also the last opportunity to stop the continuing destruction of American greatness by anti-American Progressivism.

In the past few days, we have witnessed the most decadent behavior on the part of the Democrat Party, Hillary Clinton, and her Mainstream Media allies. These anti-Americans who readily support the culture war described by the Clintons and led by Barack Obama during the past seven years will literally do anything to codify their transformational culture in any fashion possible. Effectively, their culture war strategy follows the Alinsky tactics that both Hillary Clinton and Barack Obama have studied and adopted.

MuslimsUnder the protective umbrella of Barack Obama, the Muslim Brotherhood has made tremendous progress following Muslim aggression tactics including immigration, migration, and refugee policy. In addition, the election of Barack Obama has allowed the infiltration of Muslim Brotherhood supporters into the highest levels of United States government.

It is now clear that the Clinton culture war and the Obama transformation are the same with both facilitating and sympathizing with the objectives of the Muslim Brotherhood.

All of the above plus much more has occurred with rare resistance from the Republican Party. In fact, there has been no organized resistance with only sporadic efforts made by Congressman King from New York and Michele Bachmann. Both were attacked viciously as Islamophobes, bigots, and any other demeaning name by the leftist Democrats and, of even greater importance, by some of their Republican allies in congress. Both Bachmann and King were effectively ostracized by the Washington Establishment and the march toward an Islamic state continued.

Consider the following:

  •   Barack Obama objected to being called Barack Hussein Obama prior to 2008 election Barack
  •  Barack Obama said America not a Christian nation
  •   Barack Obama and Hillary promote overthrow of sectarian governments in Libya and Egypt
  • Barack Obama and Hillary instrumental in establishing Morsy, known Muslim Brotherhood
  •  Hillary assistant Abedin part of high level Muslim Brotherhood family
  •   Obama Administration staffed with Muslim Brotherhood supporters or members
  •   Barack Obama gives Iran path to nuclear weapons
  •   Barack Obama allows Iraq to fall into chaos with ISIS prevailing
  • Barack Obama erases his own red line allowing ISIS to flourish in Syria

When June of 2015 arrived, the American public was blissfully ignoring all of the above. The Republican congress was preoccupied with showing the American people that they can reach across the aisle. They reached across approving the national debt up to the $20 trillion level. They merely grumble about sanctuary cities. They accomplish nothing concerning immigration or border control. They ignore Fast & Furious. They do nothing about Benghazi. They do nothing about the fall of Iraq. They do nothing about Syria. They do nothing about the IRS scandal. And, of greatest importance, they do nothing and say nothing about the near total breakdown concerning the vetting of refugees, dominantly Muslim, from Syria and various other Muslim nations where the Rule of Law no longer prevails.

TrumpThen, one American arrived on the scene who had been watching the systematic destruction of the America that he loved. He was not a political hack. He was not bought by $15 million donors. He was not a politician. He was a businessman and an entertainer. He vowed to close the borders, to restore our national security, and to make America great again. He subsequently read the lyrics of a song named ‘The Snake’ which indicated clearly that he knew what the radical Muslims were doing. He then stood openly against the Obama Iran giveaway. He then stated that we should stop accepting Muslim refugees until we can find out what is going on. He was the only leader, the only Republican, and literally the only American that has the strength of character and courage to confront the most significant threat that the America homeland has faced in its short history.

Trump and MelaniaHis name is Donald Trump. He must be our next President or subsequent generations of America will most probably live under the heavy hand of Radical Islamists led by the Muslim Brotherhood who profess the following:

ATT00001“Commitment to the Quranic concept of Geography: The land belongs to Allah, his religion is Islam, and every country is already in the House of Islam—now in the present time—since they will be in the House of Islam by force in the future. The whole of humanity is a Muslim Nation: it is either ‘the religion of the nation’ which has embraced this religion [Islam], or a ‘proselyte nation’ we are obliged to conquer.”(Alwani, The Jurisprudence of Muslim Minority Affairs. No. 7, translated from Arabic by Shoebat.com)

CpV7ockVUAAQtk9All of the above seems so obvious and so ominous. It is difficult to understand how any patriotic America fails to stand in resistance to anything and everything that would further the Muslim Brotherhood agenda. Yet, the Democrat Party argues whether God should be part of their activities and blocks God from their platform and is actively harboring the Muslim Brotherhood. In addition, Muslim reformers are denied a voice in Washington by the Administration including Hillary Clinton. Donald Trump provides access to reformers who truly promote Islam as a peaceful religion as he has vowed to seek an understanding as to what is going on.

Moozies1Even worse, Hillary Clinton and the national Democrats are so deeply ingrained within the Muslim Brotherhood that traditional American values are totally missing from their politics and their actions. Honesty, like “Thou Shalt Not Bear False Witness” has been totally abandoned by Hillary Clinton as is so visibly obvious in so many different respects including emails and Benghazi families. Of all values, honesty is the most basic and the most important in any relationship whether governmental or otherwise. Without honesty, confusion will reign and decision making will, by definition, be negatively impacted.

On July 27, Hillary Clinton and the Democrat Party allowed someone named Khizr Kahn to represent the Muslim Brotherhood with what appeared to be an unprovoked attack on the compassion and character of Donald Trump. It is now clear that fears for Mr. Trump, or any other Republican who will stand courageously opposing further Muslim aggression, will be denigrated and attacked using any vulgar and disgusting approach at their disposal.

My father was KIA in Germany on March 7, 1945. The use of a deceased war hero from any religion or group for political purposes is the most disgusting and repulsive action imaginable. Equally repulsive and inappropriate is for surviving family members of a war hero to use the loss of that family member in a blatantly obvious political fashion. 4

???????????????????????????????After Mr. Kahn misrepresented the Constitution, it has also now surfaced that he may have had a self-serving profit motive derived from legal immigration involving wealthy or connected Muslims. With the Kahn linkages to the Muslim Brotherhood documented by Walid Shoebat, it is now clear that the Democrats, the Clintons, and the Muslim Brotherhood will now convert this election campaign into the Clintons’ Second Culture War. It appears that the Clintons and their allies are willing to sacrifice American heritage and traditions to establish a permanent Democrat government including or subservient to the Muslim Brotherhood.

Personally, I believe Mr. Trump knew that Kahn was acting in a self serving fashion to gain personal wealth and as a Muslim Brotherhood sympathizer. Kahn’s success in both endeavors is directly dependent upon the election of Hillary Clinton. When Kahn’s Muslim Brotherhood ties and his business involvement seeking Muslim immigration became known, he quickly dismantled his website in an attempt to hide his pedigree. It became clear that he was not speaking to honor his son, but rather was there to use his son’s demise to further his own financial wealth which, by definition, is dependent upon Hillary Clinton being elected and Donald Trump being defeated in November.

Didyoukn8Donald Trump will close the borders. Donald Trump will stop Muslim immigration unless properly vetted and understood. Donald Trump will build that wall. Donald Trump will stand courageously supporting those American traditions and values that patriotic Americans hold dear, under God, and indivisible.

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Hillary’s VP Pick… Who is Kaine?

Hillary+Clinton+caricature+webClinton’s VP pick Kaine: Promoting jihadis in America in exchange for cash
Karen McQuilan – July 25, 2016

Breitbart has reported that Clinton’s V.P. pick Tim Kaine is among the top anti-Israel senators.  He is the top recipient of PAC funds from George Soros’s anti-Israel group, J Street.  He distinguished himself as one of eight senators to walk out on Benjamin Netanyahu’s historic speech to a joint session of Congress warning against the so-called Iran deal.
Kaine’s record on the Islamic threat here in America is far, far worse than that.
In exchange for campaign contributions, he appointed a radical jihadi to the Virginia Immigration Commission.  Esam Omeish runs a group described by federal prosecutors in a 2008 court filing “as the overt arm of the Muslim Brotherhood in America.”  Omeish is the V.P. of a radical mosque that had the al-Qaeda operative Anwar Al-Awlaki as its imam and two of the 9/11 hijackers and Nidal Hasan, the perpetrator of the Fort Hood shooting, in the congregation.  Omeish is still a board member, even as he serves on the Virginia Immigration Commission.
Omeish was also chairman of the board of a New Jersey mosque with terrorist ties, including an imam whom the Department of Homeland Security wants to deport for having links to Hamas.  As if that weren’t enough, Omeish pledged in a video to help Palestinians who understand that “the jihad way is the way to liberate your land.”
When a state delegate wrote a letter to then-Governor Kaine warning him that the MAS has “questionable origins,” a Kaine spokesperson said the charge was bigotry.
Kaine also has close ties with Jamal Barzinji, whom the Global Muslim Brotherhood Watch describes as a “founding father of the U.S. Muslim Brotherhood.”
He first came on to the FBI’s radar in 1987-1988 when an informant inside the Brotherhood identified Barzinji and his associated groups as being part of a network of Brotherhood fronts to “institute the Islamic Revolution in the United States.”
The source said Barzinji and his colleagues were “organizing political support which involves influencing both public opinion in the United States as well as the United States Government” using “political action front groups with no traceable ties.”
(snip) Barzinji was nearly prosecuted but the Obama Justice Department dropped plans for indictment.
Barzinji played a major role in nearly every Brotherhood front in the U.S. and was vice president of the International Institute of Islamic Thought (IIIT), which came under terrorism investigation also.
What is truly chilling about Kaine’s association with known terrorists is that the indictment of Al-Arian says the jihadist’s strategy was to “seek to obtain support from influential individuals, in the United States under the guise of promoting and protecting Arab rights.”
The quotes about Brotherhood operative Barzinji’s aspirations to use civil rights advocacy as a means to influence politicians are especially relevant when you consider that video from the event honoring Barzinji shows Kaine saying that it was his fourth time at the annual dinner and thanked his “friends” that organized it for helping him in his campaign for lieutenant-governor and governor and asked them to help his Senate campaign.
Like Hillary, Tim Kaine’s affection for jihadists is a quid pro quo: he gives them cover and appointments to positions of power, and they give him money.
(snip) The Barzinji-tied New Dominion PAC donated $43,050 to Kaine’s gubernatorial campaign …
The PAC has very strong ties to the Democratic Party in Virginia, with … almost $257,000 in donations. This likely explains why Barzinji’s grandson served in Governor McAuliffe’s administration and then became the Obama Administration’s liaison to the Muslim-American community.
The Middle East Forum’s Islamist Money in Politics database shows another $4,300 donated to Kaine’s Senate campaign in 2011-2012 by officials from U.S. Muslim Brotherhood entities …. Another $3,500 came from … Barzinji’s IIIT organization.
The New York Sun sees Kaine as one of the few senators who fully backed the Obama-Hillary Middle East disaster, including the open disrespect and hostility to our ally, Israel.
Can it be a coincidence that of all the millions of Americans Secretary Clinton could have picked as her running mate, she chose, in Senator Kaine, one of the eight Democrats who boycotted Prime Minister Netanyahu’s address last year to a joint meeting of Congress? Not a chance. It’s one marker of the fact that for all Mrs. Clinton’s protestations of support for the Jewish State, it would be a fool’s wager to count on her when the chips are down.
Hillary’s choice of Tim Kaine reveals her intentions as president to continue the Obama policy of promoting the Muslim Brotherhood and Iran and betraying Israel.  The choice of Kaine also reveals Hillary’s reckless disregard for homeland security.  She has chosen a man who is willing to cozy up to well known terror-promoters here in America in exchange for cash.
The media wants us to think Donald Trump is dangerous.  This is the face of danger: Clinton-Kaine, importers of jihadi terror to America.

Butcher of Benghazi…

Hillary lies 2Hillary Clinton has made clear she intends to dramatically raise taxes on the American people if elected. She has proposed an income tax increase, a business tax increase, a death tax increase, a capital gains tax increase, a tax on stock trading, an “Exit Tax” and more (see below). Her planned net tax increase on the American people is at least $1 trillion over ten years, based on her campaign’s own figures.

Hillary has endorsed several tax increases on middle income Americans, despite her pledge not to raise taxes on any American making less than $250,000. She has said she would be fine with a payroll tax hike on all Americans, she has endorsed a steep soda tax, endorsed a 25% national gun tax, and most recently, her campaign manager John Podesta said she would be open to a carbon tax. It’s no wonder that when asked by ABC’s George Stephanopoulos if her pledge was a “rock-solid” promise, she slipped and said the pledge was merely a “goal.” In other words, she’s going to raise taxes on middle income Americans.

Hillary+Clinton+caricature+webHillary’s formally proposed $1 trillion net tax increase consists of the following:

Income Tax Increase – $350 Billion: Clinton has proposed a $350 billion income tax hike in the form of a 28 percent cap on itemized deductions.

Business Tax Increase — $275 Billion: Clinton has called for a tax hike of at least $275 billion through undefined business tax reform, as described in a Clinton campaign document.

“Fairness” Tax Increase — $400 Billion: According to her published plan, Clinton has called for a tax increase of “between $400 and $500 billion” by “restoring basic fairness to our tax code.” These proposals include a “fair share surcharge,” the taxing of carried interest capital gains as ordinary income, and a hike in the Death Tax.

But there are even more Clinton tax hike proposals not included in the tally above. Her campaign has failed to release specific details for many of her proposals. The true Clinton net tax hike figure is likely much higher than $1 trillion.

For instance:

Capital Gains Tax Increase — Clinton has proposed an increase in the capital gains tax to counter the “tyranny of today’s earnings report.” Her plan calls for a byzantine capital gains tax regime with six rates. Her campaign has not put a dollar amount on this tax increase.

Tax on Stock Trading — Clinton has proposed a new tax on stock trading. Costs associated with this new tax will be borne by millions of American families that hold 401(k)s, IRAs and other savings accounts. The tax increase would only further burden markets by discouraging trading and investment. Again, no dollar figure for this tax hike has been released by the Clinton campaign.

“Exit Tax” – Rather than reduce the extremely high, uncompetitive corporate tax rate, Clinton has proposed a series of measures aimed at inversions including an “exit tax” on income earned overseas. The term “exit tax” is used by the campaign itself. Her campaign document describing this proposal says it will raise $80 billion in tax revenue, but claims some of the $80 billion will be plowed into tax relief. How much? The campaign doesn’t say.

This proposal completely fails to address the underlying causes behind inversions: The U.S. 39% corporate tax rate (35% federal rate plus an average state rate of 4%) and our “worldwide” system of taxation, which imposes tax on all American earnings worldwide. The average corporate rate in the developed world is 25%. Thirty-one of thirty-four developed countries have cut their corporate tax rate since 2000. The U.S. has not. Hillary’s plan moves in the wrong direction.

ATR is tracking Clinton’s full tax record at its dedicated website, HighTaxHillary.com

See also: “Everyman” Tim Kaine Tried to Raise Taxes on Adult Beverages

Hillary Opens the Door to a Carbon Tax

Hillary’s Soda Tax Endorsement Violates Middle Class Tax Pledge

Video Shows Hillary’s 25% Gun Tax Endorsement

Democrat Platform Calls for Carbon Tax

Tim Kaine Pushed Income Tax Hikes on Working Families Making As Little as $17,000

 Anyone who votes Democratic/progressive/communist is voting against self, their quality of life, their family, the future of their children and freedom. They are voting for their demise and that of America.

Abused by a man on FB, then abused by FB…

headshot60A man sent me an email full of vile words when I rejected his advances to me. I reported the abusive email to FB and, of course, they did nothing. I blocked the man.

I also contacted the local authorities and sent them a copy of the email thread. I then posted the email thread on my FB page to warn and alert others to this man’s behavior.

The post got over 50 responses and all agreed that the man is nuts and dangerous for what he wrote to me.

CensorshipThen a few days later, FB bans me for 30 days for the post.  FB is continually standing with abusers, terrorists, etc. and they ban conservatives for nothing, while allowing liberals/progressives/Muslims and others to spew all sorts of evil.

I have tried to contact FB repeatedly and they do not respond.

When you report abuse, they do not respond orthen haven’t to me and I have heard other people saying the same things about FB. But they will ban a Conservative for doing nothing.

Here is the thread:

“I am posting an message thread from a classic abusive man.. 
I post pics for fun and there is never any real nudity.. I post pics of me having wine with dinner.. I have a wine business.. that does not mean that I drink all that much.. I have very high morals and standards and this is what I get from a man on FB who comes onto me and I rebuke him…
Chuck Sheehan

any friend of ARCHIE’s is a friend of mine —— not to mention I think you are GORGEOUS!!!!!! Be my VALENTINE Ayn —-xoxoxoxoxoxo

Chuck Sheehan
Hi there GORGEOUS WOMAN!!!! xoxoxoxo
Today
Chuck Sheehan
3:14am
Chuck Sheehan
that pic of you on stairs in just the shirt—showing that pretty sexy bra and almost your tight little muff——– you are quite the naughty TEASE —and I love it !!!! You live in Texas ??? For some reason I thought you lived near me here in Juno Beach, Florida ????????
Today
Ayn Dillard
11:41am
Ayn Dillard
Thank you but I do not like the familiar verbiage you are using.. you can’t see a thing ..
Chuck Sheehan
12:06pm
Chuck Sheehan
that’s typical! I love how you post many pictures where you are showing yourself like a cheap whore slut yourself—and then if a male makes a comment agreeing with what you did YOURSELF —you go all fucking BIPOLAR passive-agressive and say idiot shit like this: “I don’t like your verbiage”—!!! What a typical spoiled asshole little arrogant CUNT you really are!!! No wonder you are miserable and cannot stay in a healthy fucking ralationship and are alone!!! You’re mentally SICK cunt. But again—-it’s all my “fault” after YOU yourself post many many suggestive and horny pictures of you looking like a fucking WHORE —-and making tons of posts suggesting the same including that website–“EXPLODING WOMEN”!! WHAT A TYPICAL STUPID FUCKING HYPOCRITICAL CUNT!!!!!!
YOU ARE REALLY A SICK FUCK IN YOUR HEAD—YOU know ????? gO GET SOME CLINICAL help. YOU ARE A PSYCHOPATHIC BORDERLINE PERSONALITY. AND I SAY THIAT BEING A LICENSED CLINICIAN, GO GET SOME HELP.
AND I HAVE ALSO SEEN THAT YOU ARE A CHRONIC ALCOHOLIC—–AND I SUSPECT YOU ALLREADY KNOW THAT AS WELL!!!!
A CHEAP WHORE ALCOHOLIC BORDERLINE PERSONALITY. NICE!!!! BYE BYE NOW!!!!! HAVE A MISERABLE LIFE—IM SURE YOU WILL—AS LIKE ALL BORDERLINES—YOU WILL JUST GET ANGRY AT SEEING THIS AND BLAME “ME”–NEVER LOOKING AT YOURSELF AND HOW MENTALLY SICK YOU ACTUALLY ARE.”

This man is still harassing me… I blocked him and he must’ve opened another profile on FB…  and FB does nothing…

Facebook

Chuck Sheehan commented on your photo.
https://www.facebook.com/n/?tristanwitch&aref=1469418419578493&medium=email&mid=5388c352b558fG5af362178c38G5386da2ece67dG9Gcba3&bcode=1.1469550956.AbnBLHks-Sp7oUBt&n_m=aynnormand@aol.com&lloc=image
Chuck Sheehan
July 26 at 11:35am
I SEE YOU’VE BEEN BANNED FROM FACEBOOK THERE LITTLE AYN!!!!!
 I think FB should be banned from the Internet and prosecuted for aiding and abetting harm to others while censoring the good and those trying to protect themselves and who expose the abuse and abusers.
FB continually censors Conservatives to promote their liberal/progressive agenda.
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I am exploding… race war just north of Dallas…

Pullinghair3When I got gas today then walked in to pay… a large black man held the door open for me a long time…. as me, a petite white woman, parked places away had a distance to walk… but this gentleman spotted me and held the door open anyway….

I said,  “Thank you kind sir.”

He said, “You bet, ma’am.”

In the Quik Trip while paying, I noticed a black couple talking to a white man about the horrors that occurred in downtown Dallas.

Everyone was polite, kind and respectful to one another.

There is no race war except what as been inflamed by Obama and his evil minions to those who are fragile, on the edge and stupid enough to buy into it. I see nothing but kindness to one another among the races where I live along with respect for the police, ‘our protectors’.

My hair stylist is a black woman…. I don’t even think of her race… we are friends… And she has commented several times, that ‘they’ are trying to create friction between the races…

People who can think … see what is going on….it’s orchestrated war between the races and our police…. and it’s orchestrated for agenda by evil…

All lives matter!

God bless and keep us all!

Empath or narcissist?…

Ann June 18, 2016 -3The more an empath can learn about the personality of a narcissist, the sooner they will spot one with less chance they will have of developing a relationship with one. If a relationship is already underway,  they can  dig deep into their soul and recognize their strengths and capabilities then do everything they can to build the courage and confidence to see it for what it is and walk away.

Because a narcissist lives in their creation of  facade, illusion, delusion and idealization, through deception, projection, control and delusion, narcissists are skilled at twisting reality. They leave you anxious, confused and questioning your own sanity. Learn how to ignore the crazy-making and stand firm in your truth.

Some in the pop psychology culture deem that someone who takes selfies is a narcissist and that is false.  Because some narcissists hate photos of themselves because they hate themselves, when self is really all they have the capability to care about.  They may have illusions and delusions of how they ‘image’ themselves and when a photo doesn’t match that image they can’t stand it.

Narcissism  is a pattern of thinking and behaving which involves infatuation and obsession with ones self to the exclusion of others. It is very different from healthy narcissism which we all possess. The actual meaning of the depiction of Narcissus in Greek mythology looking into the lake and falling in love with his reflection, is that he only has the ability to care about wants and needs of self. He cares for no one, but self. It’s all about him and no one else and actually that comes from the inability to have genuine self-love with authenticity of self on the soul level. Narcissus fell in love with ‘image’ of self, not who he actually is…because he either hates who he is or doesn’t know who he is. Therefore, he tries to create the image that he wants others to see to cover up who he really is. ‘Image’ is all a narcissist has.

Authentic self-love is very different from a narcissistic obsession with self. It takes a person who loves self in the authenticity of who they are, that can truly look into a mirror, see  who they are, their flaws and all, and still accept and  love themselves. And, therefore,  be able to love another selflessly and authentically, able to accept flaws in another, give to and to understand the responsibility of another’s heart. Doesn’t mean that when you look into your mirror that you don’t want to change some things, but you authentically accept and love yourself, until you do.  It’s a type of unconditional self love… it’s what the narcissist craves, but can’t feel or give. So they seek to suck the energy of love and acceptance from others, but when they get it, they eventually turn to criticize, diminish and abuse those giving it.  Partly to  create distance,  partly to have no responsibility for another, partly to feed their own ego, so they can temporarily feel better about their self-lack, and partly because they don’t think they are worthy of the love and acceptance they are being given, and they so desire. So they devalue and destroy it along with the person giving it. This temporarily gives the narcissist the upper hand and a sense of power, of feeling important, and unattainable. But, they always did have the upper hand because most knew they were  disingenuous from the beginning. They can’t live in the reality of  love, harmony, peace and joy because they don’t have these things inside themselves. Our inner world creates the outer.

Add to that, narcissists are threatened by genuine self-confidence and anyone who has authentic self-love, peace and joy, because the narcissist does not have that ability. So they seek out people who can fill them up with what they are lacking, if only temporarily and, of course, it is temporary as the narcissist sooner or later always crashes into reality of self and will try to tear the other person down and keep them off kilter. Giving the narcissist a rush of power in their fragile ego as they control the emotions of another.

Narcissists only care about what they can get from others, be it an  emotional, high, ‘such as falling in love’, excitement, sex, power by association, money, distraction, or just that they feel something, anything to take them out of their non-feeling and self-loathing emptiness.  Narcissists are about what they can ‘get’ instead of what they can ‘give’.

Some narcissists appear to enjoy sex in the beginning; but what they enjoy is the excitement, seduction, and the rush of newness; as the relationship progresses, they may shut down or pull away from their partner sexually. Doing this, serves to give them another sense of power, by withholding what their partner desires. Many narcissists have no authentic connection to their bodies, when it comes to genuinely connecting to another, so sex soon becomes a chore or non-existent or meaningless as they go from one partner to another.

An empath is connected to body, mind and spirit, so sex to them is another expression of love. With a narcissist, sex is a means to an end, a way to control, or a rush to a high that they lose interest in, soon to be on the prowl for another conquest.

Narcissists don’t have the desire or energy to genuinely love anyone but themselves, unless when it serves them to, because suppressing their anger (narcissistic rage) and other emotions that can easily turn into depression (depression is anger turned inward) is all they have the energy for. They remain focused on self on every level. While they long to be fulfilled, they have no understanding that what genuinely fulfills, is to give and to care for another or others. 

Narcissists focus on escape, illusion of perfection, power, great wealth, that the whole world loves and revolves around them, winning the lottery and all sorts of objects and things, etc.  They idealize relationships and their dreams of pleasure and escape can change often and rapidly. They are never satisfied because it’s impossible for them to be, because they aren’t internally satisfied  with self. I am not speaking of ordinary adventures, dreams and ambition that most all of us have.  Because a narcissist is different, in that, they are never satisfied or happy even when they achieve or attain that which they are after,  and  with that realization, they can fall into an even deeper depression.

Their lives can be a roller coaster, a series of being seemingly happy then depression and they have no idea why. Since they idealize relationships, they will devalue what they have, always looking for more, the next shiny thing … on a constant quest, but never finding fulfillment, like a hamster on a treadmill. The grass is always greener in their world, but when reality hits hard, when they realize that it isn’t, they may fall into deeper depression. Remember, they have no ability to accept flaws in others because they can’t accept flaws in self.

Narcissists cannot/do not feel joy,  have flat or shallow  emotions, cannot genuinely love because love takes the ability to give, to be unselfish, compromise and narcissists do not have these abilities, because everything is about them.  In the beginning, when they are trying to achieve their narcissist supply, they can ‘act’ unselfish and giving, but this is only an ‘act’…   nothing is genuine or authentic with them and will not last for long.

 Narcissists are soul sick.

They  may appear controlled in their expressions and words, like an empty  kind of politeness… as if they have to think hard before they speak, so they can phase words just right for their orchestrated-agenda-filled effect – their self-created image. This is because, they aren’t authentic and don’t have genuine intention.  While the rest of us are just being who we are when we talk and move through life. That doesn’t mean that we don’t think about what we say and do, but most of the time it’s effortless. We can error, accept it, correct ourselves, genuinely apologize and continue on. A  narcissist’s apology is the most shallow words you will ever hear.

A narcissist’s  image is overly important to them since they have little to no internal core structure. They freak when their image is threatened as that touches to the base core of their fragile ego.

They, more often than not,  mimic emotions, behaviors, even dialogue and scenes in movies to be able to fit in, move though the world, seduce and to attain their narcissist supply. They may have dead eyes, even when they smile. Their lips smile, their face and eyes don’t. They study people to learn how to respond appropriately and practice how to act, in order, to appear a certain way when they want to be accepted.

Often times, they fall into a deep depression with no ability to feel, until their next shiny thing comes along with which they can pursue their narcissist supply… the rush of pursuit with goal to suck off of another’s emotions.

Narcissistic supply is easily seen in the romantic pursuit of relationships… but the same dance occurs, of course, in all levels, and activities in society.They fall in love as fast as they fall out of love. Since they cannot genuinely love,  they soon lose interest when the first rush of falling in love with all its emotional excitement settles down to reality.  Love is enduring, not just a rush of excitement, shallow, superficial or fake. Narcissists can’t handle the quiet security,  peaceful joy and genuinely getting to know another person, becoming vulnerable to another and living with the everyday challenges, disappointments and joys of life.  This feels mundane to them, while it’s what most all of us strive for. This is because they do not have this internally, so they have no ability to create, express, or experience it externally. Therefore,  they begin relationships again and again for the rush of the challenge and excitement.  Some prefer short monogamous, marriage-like connections, (so they can feel temporarily connected like others) until the relationship  get too real and the other person has needs and requirements that must be met in order to create the balance that sustains a real relationship. When this occurs the narcissist shuts down, rages, abuses, criticizes, falls into depression or someone ends it, because when it isn’t all about them, they are not in control and pulling the strings, they get no rush.

The chance of a narcissist changing is highly unlikely, so we shouldn’t stick around waiting for it to happen. If a narcissist wants to change, then great, but it should never happen at the expense of anyone else. They  can even  keep up their false image to mental health providers when seeking help .

They may or may not be consciously aware of their behavior and the damage it causes to others because in their fake game, they will sacrifice anyone and anything for the gain of their narcissist supply, then escape and not feel pain, except for themselves…. they are the eternal victims. Because they are above all selfish, all about themselves and no one else really matters. They do not have the ability to feel or express empathy, except in a fake, learned mannerly way .

An empath is authentic, genuine and is desperate to live true to their soul’s purpose and will very likely find a relationship with a narcissist a huge lesson, a dodged bullet with a painful awakening.

An empath feels love deeply and genuinely. They feel and honor all their emotions with no need to negate or to fake them. If negative experiences happen, they hurt and may get unhappy or depressed, but it’s situational and they will lift out of it as they work to improve the situation and to heal. An empath wants to heal and to heal others. An empath feels the joy of living and being alive. An empath is genuine to themselves able to have empathy and to love another in authenticity. An empath accepts all emotions and allows them to flow through them in awareness  as they  try to gain growth and a deeper insight into self on their quest to becoming more authentic. This is why narcissists attract to empaths.

Empaths need to be careful of not becoming co-dependent. They can’t ‘fix’ the narcissist. When an empath states, I love you, it is genuine and means the beginning of a life together. When a narcissist says, I love you, it means I love the way I feel when I am with you, or they have claimed their shiny object, can get monetary, or other needs met, or that the chase is over and their narcissist mission has been temporarily accomplished…soon after, the love stops. 

A narcissist struggles to have any connection to their authentic self and will likely walk away from any relationship or situation, once they realize that they have lost their ability to control the empath, or the empath will not accept the narcissist’s behavior and  forces them to become self-aware and to heal. When the narcissist’s fake  game no longer works, is pleasurable, or they can’t suck narcissist supply from their victim, if the narcissist is not able to be in control with ego constantly stroked, feel in charge, they will seek out their next victim, ‘the next shiny thing’, or escape.

Narcissists are full of ego and selfishness, but it’s a fragile ego built on nothing. They flip from feeling less than to feeling more than, instead of just being equal to all others. They are always trying to outsmart others to gain the upper hand. When reality is, they are outsmarting themselves, damaging others and ultimately destroying their chance at authentic fulfillment. Reality is, their ego is so fragile, that they always need fresh pursuits or withdrawal to recharge.

The final act on the stage of life seems to be a pulling back of the curtain to the soul.

As a narcissist ages, they may realize something is wrong with them and fall into an even deeper depression. They can’t genuinely connect to people and certainly not in a love relationship… they may prefer being alone, only coming out of their darkness for their narcissist fix, then going right back in. They may realize how alone they really are, alone inside their distorted mind,  stuck  in their heads only connected to their empty self and their selfish wants and needs.

Narcissism and Depression

Narcissism and depression are believed to oftentimes occur together, probably because the narcissistic personality is incapable of developing true feelings of self-worth or intimacy with others. Genuine relationships with others are what enrich and sustain the lives of empaths because they have a genuine relationship with self, so they value people.

Depression brings with it many physical ailments, aches, pains, headaches, back aches, high blood pressure, heart issues, etc. addictions, and is all about self-absorption… the very thing the narcissist loves… self.

A narcissist has been fractured somewhere in their childhood, and split off from their authentic self to survive, or they were born disconnected from self with their life’s journey  being to reconnect. But it’s a deep soul searching journey to fulfillment and wholeness and most will not attempt or do so. They will just keep playing the game, using the tactics that they know. Some are diabolical, sociopathic monsters and others are wounded souls with little genuine self knowledge. It’s nature versus nurture and there can be a fine line between the two. There may be an inherited disposition to mental illness, or something could have occurred in childhood to trigger it, or both. Genetics  can influence the absence of various brain chemicals that influence how little or much empathy a person has. Personality disordered people struggle with not experiencing, or not having empathy.

Narcissistic need can be compared to that of a toddler. To a toddler everything is mine, mine mine. It’s a normal developmental stage that is usually soon grown out of, as they learn to share, care, and interact with others. But some children at any age can have experiences that fracture them and they stay frozen in that developmental stage. As in a child or teenager who is fearful of growing up and separating from parents and when triggered as an adult, the person digresses back to the developmental age in which they were frozen.  I have literally seen persons with suppressed  emotions, digress right in front of me to somewhere in childhood… as they scream “‘I’ won’t! ‘I’ don’t! ‘I’ll’ do it when ‘I’ am ready!” Their faces and voices becoming child-like, as if they are talking to a parental or authority  figure. A temper tantrum passes for cute in a toddler, but is shockingly and monstrously detestable done by an adult.  Observing one can make you want to gauge your eyes out. It’s hideous.

Parents and the family play a large roll in our psychological development and no ones parents or siblings are perfect. Be alerted if anyone states their mother, father and family were perfect and without flaws. Many times, this kind of denial is part of their fake existence as they try to keep anything negative suppressed to keep their facade intact. Denial is a prominent tool of the narcissist’s existence and assists to keep their fragile self intact. They develop certain beliefs because those beliefs allow them to maintain their  so-called ‘psychological stability’. So any  threat to their beliefs is considered a direct threat to the person’s fragile psychological stability.

Therefore, if they are awakened and acknowledge their parent/family’s flaws then it can make the narcissist feel even more fragile and lost because some  narcissists have an unhealthy connection to one or both parents and hold onto it as if it’s their life line that creates their existence… going from love to hate and back again but never just genuine acceptance.

The most narcissistic people I have known fall into this category. They have created a facade that their family is perfection, when it’s quite the opposite and they have much buried emotional pain, etc. that they have endured as they fragmented themselves trying  to fit in where they didn’t. Therefore, forever or until and if, they decide to dig really deep to heal, they will use much energy suppressing these buried memories and the emotions connected to them which causes depression. 

After all, the issue with narcissism, depression and other mental disorders is an inability to genuinely and authentically process, feel and express emotions.  To be and live in the authentic genuine self, you must have the ability to see things as they really were/are and not as you want them to be. By so doing, you are free to create and live an authentic life, to be loved and to love another, etc.

The romantic relationship is where these deep seated wounds are more easily seen and exposed with have the possibility of being healed because being that close to another is as close as we come to being truly vulnerable, but it takes courage to do this. It’s as close as we get to the child, mother, father connection. Those deep and profound imprints that drive us our whole life in both negative and positive ways, either to our destruction or onto our healing and authentic wholeness.

To love another genuinely, one must become/be the authentic self, or the love will be shallow.

Empaths are giving. They put others before themselves.  A narcissist will only put another before themselves when they are trying to hook the person in to get their narcissist supply.

Narcissists seek me out because of my empathic nature. Many times, I knew I was dealing with coldness and strangeness, with shallow, self-serving emotions, other times, I didn’t know until I did.  Some were overtly abusive and cruel, escaped into alcoholism, gambling, affairs,  others covertly,  fell into depression and excuses for no apparent reason, except for the pursuit of escape, in their fear of being really seen, and known, or when reality became too real and they either had to change to have any semblance of being a genuine feeling human being or escape….

While interacting with them, I began to have stomach aches, or feel ill in some way that was not my usual way of feeling and when I called them on their issues, they tried to project them onto me. Even projecting so much as to call me, for example: a narcissist because I take selfies.  Projection is a key tool of the narcissist and others who are disordered.  They can’t look at self in any authentic way, so have to make it about the other person, when it’s really about them.

Empaths being self-aware with the desire to be caring, empathetic and authentic to self may take on the narcissist’s projections until they wake up and realize that none of it is about them. A narcissist can devastate an empath’s self-esteem, even making them feel mentally and physically ill. Being around pathology can make healthy people ill. 

Recently,  I reconnected with a psychologist, I had gone to years ago after a divorce. She is retired now and we spent much time talking about narcissists and empaths. At my request,  I took some personality tests to affirm what I already knew, that I am predominantly an empath. On one of the empathic/narcissist tests, I scored 90 percent empathic.

A psychologist once said to me : “He USED you! He wanted from you what he didn’t have–you were a challenge. He wanted your high energy, your enthusiasm for life, your kindness towards others, your class, your good-looks–he wanted it all…and then….once he had it, and the challenge was no longer there, it wasn’t fun for him anymore,  and he either had to anti-up or destroy it all to escape and slide right back into his comfortable depressive state where he’s spent most of his miserable life. After all the romance and ‘l love yous’, then to say, “All I am capable of is friendship.” What fucking bullshit to treat you so shabbily and say that shit to you!”

The above  paragraph is the exact and perfect example of the way a narcissist behaves.

A narcissist’s primary goal is to manipulate for self-serving agenda. An empath’s primary goal is to love and to heal.  So a relationship with a narcissist is toxic for an empath.

We all have varying traits that hit on every aspect of the psychological spectrum. It’s when very many are in one, that  a person is deemed to have a personality disorder.

A review of narcissist traits:  shallow emotions, flat or shallow affect, goes from high to low emotions, (range of degree can even be bi-polar), many short term romantic relationships, rarely commits,  cheats, boasts, lives dangerously or on the edge, suppresses anger and other emotions, rage and anger can come out of nowhere,  impatient, bouts of depression, only interested in self, selfish, can go from appearing loving and giving to cold and non-giving in a short span of time, and for no apparent reason,  and many would rather be alone than with people. They don’t actually like people, unless, it’s to get their ‘fix’ for their narcissist supply. They are cold and calculating, whether aware of what they are doing or not and most are aware … and all this has little to nothing to do with taking selfies…

Also, there can be mixed psychological issues, such as narcissist/borderline – narcissist/avoidant disorder, etc. But the bottom line is these people are psychologically disordered and can wreck havoc in the lives of those who live in authenticity with emotions in tact, able to give  and to receive love.  People who  are empaths.

Giving to another in love is the greatest blessing we have on earth. The greatest lesson we may all ever learn, is to love and be loved in return. This is especially true for the narcissistic personality type as they learn to give and for the empath to learn that love is received in return.

“There is only one kind of love, but there are a thousand imitations”.
Francois de La Rochefoucauld

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